I kinda ended up with two girls, And I don't know who I like more. One is my Friend Samm, And The other is my friend Skasa.
I honestly love them both.
This is the first time I even had a girl to talk to. Let alone
Potentially date/marry.

I know this is cliche, but if you love them both let them go and whoever loves you more will come back to you.

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Been there done that. Skasa and I have been through Hell and back letting the other be free to do as they please.
And Samm and I kinda spent a week out lost in the forest.
Simply just letting them go won't work. We are frittelo .Brothers in arms. ECT.

*Throws confetti* Polyamory is a thing. Try for a three way relationship, my friend.

Yeah

Yeah

HAHAHA NOPE. Ever saw the anime school days? Run if you want to be an indecisive twat. Don't lead on a girl and act like you're picking candy in a candy shop -_-

School days is a riot it makes my head spin but it ia surely a good anime..

I'm not sure if you're dating them both or just can't decide between them, but never date 2 people at once. If you're dating them, let them go. If you're stuck between them, wait until you can make up your mind.

You definitely need to decide soon, for the sake of the girls you care about. If they think they have a fully committed and caring boyfriend only to find out he was cheating it would destroy them and your relationship as a whole.

chose the second becasue if you really loved the first you wouldnt have fallen for the second

.-. "One if my friend sam, the other is my friend Skasa", how about neither?

You are not in love, you are simply in need of someone to pay attention to you, someone you can rely on. You never hesitate when you love someone, so you should honestly leave them both if you are going to be like that. You are going to hurt them both if you can't choose, and you are going to be left alone as well.

I'm going to put some input being on the receiving end of this type of ordeal. I was into someone that was dating another, only she didn't let me know she was with someone till it was too late. She tried to be with both of us and it f'd her over in the long run. Due to that I will never consider being with her again. It also sounded like she couldn't be with the other guy as well, so she screwed herself out of a relationship.

Don't be a douche and only date one person. You can't try to keep both satisfied and if you do then you will end up losing them both.

Try to think more than just the feelings for another as well for a potential person to date. Think of the bad habits they do as well. Can you put up with the flaws of one person more than the other?

Also what do you mean it is the first time you had a girl to talk to? If that is the case you are probably just craving attention. Would you fall for any girl that talked to you? What makes these people look so attractive to you?

First off, Thank you all for advice.
Secondly,when I said I didn't talk much to girls,
I misworded that. Pretty much all the girls I know where I live have an IQ of 20. Samm and Skasa both push my limits. Both make me think. I know infatuation isn't the same as love. I have attention, In the end. These are my two best friends, we three have lived together, fought together and at one point, lost in Mexico together.
In the end, I feel whoever I don't choose I will hurt.

Love is hurtful. It can't be helped~

You have to choose one or none at all b/c no matter what its gonna end bad. Hope it works out, at least you understand how painful this problem can be and blindly not go with this.

I talked to both of them.
They agreed to let me take
Them both on a date.
So I get to do that for a bit.
I'm taking samm to the movies.
And Skasa out dancing.
Wish me luck.

Ok good luck

I took Samm out today.
We went to the mall and enjoyed a movie,
She then had me play DDR till I looked like
A sweaty fat guy.

I remember why I'm friends with her, She made
Me relax. all day I kept worrying about school
Bills and that stuff. But for a few hours,
I didn't care... I take Skasa out tomorrow.

Just got back from my date with Skasa.
She chose some high-class restaurant down town.
Like,French cuisine. Afterwards we went and found a
Lounge that had a live band. And we danced for a while...

She is a dear friend to me, Hell she payed for our meal.
I just wish one of them would give me a reason to
Pick the other.
I make my choice tomorrow so this I it for mow.

You're so complicated. I feel like you're playing both these girls! That's not cool dude! Not cool!

I swear I'm not playing them. ( They would kill me if I did).
Trust me, All in all. From what a friend told me.
"So long as you don't make it sound like it was easy, and that
You don't hurt their feelings, it I possible to keep both friends and still date one."
So all I need to do I think before I open my mouth.
And I can keep my friends.

well i hope thats possible mate as situations like this can go out of hand VERY easily. you sound like you can pull it for tho :) i mean they are your best friends so im sure they'll understand in the end but i may take some time so dont be surprised if you stop talking for a few days.

OP, try the harem ending. It's all or nothing.

You know, a bunch of people keep saying take the date both option. (Even our de facto boss says that is our true ending.)
Anyone care to tell me how I can take that option?

well there are people who date multiple people at once openly but i doubt you'd be lucky enough for them to both be up for it :/

I hope you have a lot of money, things are going to get tough when they will want gifts, and also if they both get pregnant xD

Quick update. I til them my choice. I'll say in a bit.

Okay so, We met up today.
I spent a bit talking in circles but sooner or later
I mustered up the strength to ask the both to date me.
After a moment they laughed up a storm as they said
"That's totally an idea, Sure. Dinner your treat."

So I need up with both, Thank you guys for the advice.
I guess till next time.
-The Local Chimera. Kane Los NaVI.

Wow. Haha glad it ended well. Good luck in the future .

The fact that this ended so well for you makes me think that you might be a real-life harem protagonist...the names Masaki Tenchi and Urashima Keitaro immediately spring to mind. All the same though, very nice! I hope it works out for you! ( ^ω^ )

>>32 was thinking the same haha! Best of luck NaVI!