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I Need Advice (4)

1 Name: NAVI : 2014-09-12 23:25 ID:Pp8LLyvw [Del]

Hello everyone, I need some advice on things.
So my brother got divorced and not soon after that got fired from
His job, and finally he got caught stealing and is now in deep shit.
He and I have been getting into fights pretty much everyday.
In the end He keeps telling me to stop bothering him about anything
on the fact I have not been through all he has in the past months.
Any advice?

2 Name: 一十也ん : 2014-09-13 00:01 ID:oS44UXxS [Del]

Hi NAVI,so I have brothers too,and I've to say as you know we always have problems and fights but in the end we're brothers so we helped each other.
So my advice,or better,what I think is that even when it hurts the most stay by his side,and show him that you're there for him,cuz u r siblings,show him he can count on you. Even when he "punches" you stay there,firm,sometime he will be tired of it and will hug you and cry,and in that time you'll hug him back so he will see that he can count on you.
Sorry for don't have a better advice,I know I'm probably not helping,but I wanted to say this.

3 Name: NAVI : 2014-09-13 00:27 ID:Pp8LLyvw [Del]

Thank you, I'll try to use this. Ultimately though I just wish he could see I want to help him, not hurt him.

4 Name: Xenophyrr : 2014-09-13 05:06 ID:nv7DBf8i [Del]

A family is a family. Just keep in touch with him! You should treat him sometimes and talk formally. Just be with him all the time.. He needs more of his family time. I'm not in the floor to say this cause I don't really know what hapened. Sorry if i'm not helping you.