Hei! that´s really serious! Maybe she has depression or family problems.../(·o·)/...
Well, let´s say she is only a introverted person. Has she tried to enter in any similar group?
I understand you, you have to focus in yourself and your own situation. You don´t have time but at he same time you don´t want her to be alone.
Sorry if you think I´m kind of psycotic but... about that club of yours... maybe you should try to have a external regulator. Someone who will determine if that´s bulling or only a way to end boredom... anyway you should remove them as Roxanne (
>>2)said.
Sorry, but you´re kind of general about this topic.
I hope my opinión helps you (anyway).