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I need advice?! (11)

1 Name: Cana : 2014-08-27 13:57 ID:/X8k9WpR [Del]

Well... I am a 16 year old highschool student who has a fucked up life (yeah I know classic). I have a really pretty face and I get the you are cute! Comments a lot. Well thats not the thing tho.
I want to make sure of something, which most of the teenage girls ask;
'Does he love me?'
Yeah. THAT question.

Well he is my BEST FRIEND even tho we have known each other for like 3/4 a year.
We dont have a relationship like... normal boys and girls have. He is 16 too, 12th grade.
Well he is not like a btorher, a flirt, father or mother. He is like... different. We always talk about random stuff like REALLY random.
We met in a Dollars chat. Actually,we shouldnt have met because he is not in dollars, he was added by mistake. He is really emotional and adorable at times. I love him, but as a friend. A friendship which I want to treasure a lot. If we have a romantic relartionship, I want it to be serious too.

We live in different countries. I sent him a letter and he bought me a silver bracelet which costs around 300USD. I was shocked. He wasted all of the money he was saving for something else for that. He said I was worth it because I was his best friend.
Whenever we talk on skype he acts cute sonetimes. Its like... I can see him as a guy that time. Other times we are just so... in a weird friendship.

He had a girlfriend but they recently broke up. We call each other cute and all. And whenever something sad happens to me I tell him and he listens. And the other way round. I listen.

I really love him and he loves me too. But as a bestfriend. And I dont know if he loves me THAT way.

Any... ideas?

2 Name: Roxanne : 2014-08-27 14:21 ID:LMF5T9uz [Del]

Well it's better to know him in person than what he seems right now. He sounds like a nice dude but always be carful. Keep him in the friend zone if you don't see him more than just a friend. Just because he's really sweet doesn't mean you have to date him. I had the same thing going on I'm sexy, hot and whatever but this dude got me gifts too and in the end he tried to rape me so just to let you know. Don't just let nice guys swoop you up I was the same age when that happen. Please take this as a consideration in mind anything can happen.

3 Name: Cana : 2014-08-27 14:28 ID:/X8k9WpR [Del]

>>2
He is not sweet and nice actually. He is himself when we are together. He is not trying to hit on me at all. We just talk and play games. He calls me a faggot and I call him a bitch all the time. We call each other as cousins and all. We have a lot of thigs we talk and we talk everyday. He goes to sleep around morning so that he can make sure im not bored at school (timezone difference).
I dont want to date him at all I love our friendsgip like this. But I will be careful, thanks for the warning.

4 Name: Neko-tama!EQ2c47V0Ps : 2014-08-27 18:08 ID:F4guGD7f [Del]

>>1 he sounds like a pretty awesome guy, and he sounds like he really cares for you. I guess you have a few options as to what to do. You can just leave your friendship as a friendship, maybe one day he'll confess or maybe he won't. Or you could take a chance, you could ask him a "what if we...". just talk about it and tell him that you don't want to jeopardize your friendship. You could even confess your feelings to him. They say best friends make the best lovers. Not to scare you or anything but long distance relationships are hard, but they're doable. I wish you two the best! Good luck! :3

5 Name: Cana : 2014-08-27 19:43 ID:/X8k9WpR [Del]

>>4
Haha, he really is an awesome guy ^^
Actually when graduates, he will be visiting me a lot and plans on attending to a university where I live.
Actually I dont want to have an awkward atmosphere around us. If I ask what if we; he will try looking at me in a different way.

The great thing in our friendship is;
When we are together we forget each others gender. Its like we are in a different world on our own. I love being in that little world ^^

6 Name: calamity queen : 2014-08-29 00:02 ID:ereVODaA [Del]

I'm in a long distant relationship too. It's not as distant as yours though. But it's best to not trust him to much until you actually see the guy. If you really think he is the right one. But don't do anything risky, this is still over the internet, don't give private info too, you don't completely know him.

7 Name: Cana : 2014-09-08 06:17 ID:6vjShYfZ [Del]

>>6
I know all of his private info, and we actually met once. I completely know him. He is like an open book and I go to the same school with his cousin.

8 Name: Minus!Yv.WgpXtYo : 2014-09-09 00:25 ID:G3mb1K8Z [Del]

Being in a relationship isn't about just kissing and going further.
It means having a best friend, someone to talk to, someone to listen to, to act silly with, and in the mean time love each other.
A relationship has many ups and downs. But what matters in the end is that you solve your problems together.

Your relationship with this guy seems exactly how I described it.
What I mean is to ask him directly. I mean no friend of mine would buy me $300 bracelet just because. Maybe $100. Or not even $50 XD I give you my word he wants you.
If he is real, go for him. Don't let him go away.

the chance of him saying he sees you just as a friend is like 5%. Oh, but that 95% tells me that he would say he loves you too.
I say, you confess first. Just do it. You don't have to wait for guys to tell that. Actually, they are more scarred to ask us out than we are. Like literally. He probably will shit his pants trying to confess to you.
So you go first!
Team Cana!!

9 Name: Chreggome : 2014-09-09 06:19 ID:KAGgDWKu [Del]

You guys don't love each other, pretty sure.
Also, becareful as people from other countries will try to buy you gifts and act sweet to you to get something out of you.

>When we are together we forget each others gender
Are you both dudes?
Or is that just some 100% stupid shit?

10 Name: Xephlrek!9RNNck.4fo : 2014-09-09 06:50 ID:yA8vfQp1 [Del]

Get raped.

11 Name: Chreggome : 2014-09-09 07:11 ID:KAGgDWKu [Del]

>>10 Whoa, someone is having a hard day today.
What's wrong, Xelph?
Do you need to talk?
Things in your life not being all that you thought they could be?
Friends not seeming much like friends?
Feel lost?

It's okay, Xelph. Your tribulations mean less than you make them mean.

:^))