I'm not in the best place right now. Neither my life on a whole nor my relationship with my girlfriend are going that great.
I move out of my parent's house in june and I'm about to move again at the end of September.
I can honestly say I love my GF. That being said I have the horrible feeling that we're gonig to break up. We've been fighting alot lately and we've broken up alot too. But somehow we've always gone back to being together...
All in all I'd say I'm confused to an extreme degree as to what to do. I feel bad whenever I deny her something she whats, but she comes up with thing I promised her out of the blue.
I feel really overwhelmed at the moment. I can't keep up with my life.
Does anyone have some advice? I could really use some...

Life is not bad as it looks.
Enjoy it,its maybe now bad.
just need a little time and then it will be all fine.
*smile*
(sorry for bad english)

>>1 take a deep breath. Focus on one thing at a time, don't think about everything at the same time, focus on the task at hand and work it all out from there. Don't over-complicate things. As for your girlfriend, just talk to her, talk it out together and do your best to support each other.

Focus on making it through today. That way, with a little endurance, you'll find it's easier and easier. Share your fears with your girlfriend. Often times, it works for me. So just focus on today and talk things through. If that doesn't work, then don't give up. Listen to a song or cry if you need to. But always remember that you're human, and humans can do extraordinary things. They've made it through a lot. You're one of them.

I hope that doesn't sound too confusing. Just keep it up, kay?
~Raggy

When I was going out with my lover she realized she was emotionally abusing me and left my life. I really cared for her too but she was making me cry a lot saying and acting like she doesn't care. When me and her was watching a movie I fell asleep on the last 20mins and she got upset. It wasn't out of boredom but I have problems in dozing off. Then the next day she wanted to watch another movie then before she put it on I wanted to warn her I don't want to fall asleep on another movie because it was getting late. I told her I do want to watch it but I got a problem in falling sleep often and don't want to get mad. I told her to put on a familiar movie so we both like so we can watch together instead of something I never seen before. She did then she left the room and I knew she was mad but didn't know why. In the end we broke up because she hated the fact I fell asleep and didn't want to do anything with me. I started crying because she was just being harsh to me then her mom asked her why couldn't she just put a blanket over me if I fell asleep. She even pointed out there if I warned her I didn't want to go to sleep again and if I did putting on the movie anyway she would've still got mad and that wouldn't have been fair. At least that was the clearest example that it wasn't going to work out, because she kept pointing out things I so wrong and my flaws all the time but she couldn't see her own and realized that day. She blamed herself and apologies for what she did but we can't be together and that was it. Recently that happened so if it's something like that it won't work out. Except it was different, as soon a person break up with me I won't go back to them that's why. She broke up with me twice but that's because she didn't like me drinking and I stopped that for her. We didn't have a break up and come back relationship like that. Sometimes you just have to learn to deal with each other bs with out saying I'm breaking up with you so much. Then it just a pathetic back and fourth thing. You don't juggle your lover to do that so you guys kinda already messed up and probably now getting tired of each other and you feel like you want to keep trying but you shouldn't.