Hello, let me just start this off from the beggining. I am a female in highschool. I had it great and decided to start dating. My first boyfriend and I broke up to be just friends and soon after I got with my girlfriend. I thought what I felt for her was love, we were together for 10 months before I broke us up. The 9th month in I had met a guy who was gentle and sweet and I had to talk to him each day or I felt so alone. I began to feel guilty and broke it up between me and my girlfriend. I told the boy that I couldn't be with him after he had confessed his love for me. And the a few days after we broke up my ex girlfriend told me she still loves me. I broke 2 hearts and gone the rest of the summer in quiet heart break. But by the end of the summer my ex girlfriend began dating another boy not even a week after we broke up. The boy who told me he loved me still loves me, and he knows I still feel for my ex girlfriend. It had been about a month and a half and the boy is starting to get moody. He seems different. I know that I flirt a lot as well. But I wanna stop hurting people. What should I do?

First off try to apologize to both of them. They need to know the situation you are in. I also assume one of them might confess during the apology. If your not sure ask for more time to think about it. After try to maintain a good relationship with both of them. Then start dating when you know they know it's in the past and they have almost forggoten what happened. Any questions?

You aren't ready to date yet b/c you can't exactly settle with any of them. You have to apologies though for what you done but you can't have a relationship if you can't keep it steady. You're obviously off edge and rather flirt with a bunch of people than be with anyone seriously. If you believe you're serious ask yourself why you did it? The best thing to do is not bother you'll just make things hard for them besides yourself. Try dating later on, and with someone else I don't think going out with your ex would be very healthy. You have to be very sure if you're going to take them back. Just remember when you're dating someone you'll have fun times and boring times, upsetting, sad or happy moments. They're all good memories don't put it to waste and don't forget the times you spent together they're all valuable memories. I'm still with my lover so I think it'll be good to pass down. Good luck

I accept your advice. It's odd though when I see them everyday. I talk to them and my ex girlfriend and I are ok now. But with the boy he has been getting upset easily. He gets angry easy. It isnt like him. Like when i was talking to my ex boyfriend, he had gotten angry and just walked off. I didn't understand. How can I be able to not hurt him? But also not hurt myself or others?

All I want is peace...but instead I hurt others