1 Name: Katsumi Haruna : 2014-07-31 23:47 ID:azFneMAd [Del]
Recently my boyfriend and I were talking on FB and it was about me being suicidal and depressed...He asked me to do this so I could be more open with him and also because he wants to help me and be there for me when I'm sad. Well, his mom got a hold of his account and doesn't think I'm good for him now and we've met before and she thought I was nice....I'm really afraid of losing him, I feel as if his mom is gonna force us apart now or he'll just leave me because he doesn't want to let this incident be a wedge between him and his mom.... I can see that she's just trying to protect him because she loves him but she's doing so in a way that's blind to the other side of the story, I'm doing my best with my problems but sometimes my best isn't enough. She says that if I want to continue to be a part of his life I need to seek help but I'm already going through therapy and it doesn't help and my mother won't let me take medication so I'm out of ideas...
I left out a few small details: he's been through a lot ex- his parents are divorced and he's been abused and left.... and we've both been hurt in similar ways especially in our love experiences...I was in an abusive relationship before me and my current boyfriend started dating so that's why I'm so scared here...
2 Name: Joey : 2014-08-01 00:52 ID:T9GysRwU [Del]
Not that I know the full situation or anything, but I'd like to believe that his mother wouldn't force you two apart. And she said that if you want to be a part of his life that you need to seek help right? Well you mentioned you were in therapy, so you could definitely tell her that and I'm sure she'll be more understanding. If that doesn't convince her you are "good enough" for your boyfriend then you should work towards curing your depression. Find out what's making you sad, if you don't already know, and work towards a solution. I had a friend who was sent to some hospital since he wasn't sure if he was gay, and the fear of telling others and their reactions was making him depressed. Once he came out, and realized his friends would accept him for who he was, he was a much happier person. I believe if you can find out what it is that's got you down then you can cure yourself! If its the drama with the relationship, then sometimes just thinking everything will be okay will make it okay! The mind is strong like that!
3 Name: Celestial Envoy : 2014-08-01 06:56 ID:SDcUfpwJ [Del]
Well I agree on your mom to not take medication, is not worth depending on a drug to help you with your problums. Your bf's mom is doing what you say she is doing but blind about the other side your right. Maybe you and your bf can confront her together. If that dosent work then I still doubt she can keep you guys separated, especialy if you guys go to the same school. Dont forget about thouse that care for you eather like you bf your mom, and even the Dollars. Your to early in the game to quit, you will have more opertunities to be happy if you presue it. And you have all these people that love and care for you. So hang in there, its not as bad as it look ok?
4 Name: Equinox !PARADoXAVQ : 2014-08-01 19:48 ID:z+7IUNzb [Del]
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6 Name: Equinox !PARADoXAVQ : 2014-08-01 20:28 ID:z+7IUNzb [Del]
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7 Name: Epsira : 2014-08-02 11:19 ID:TPq31f7J [Del]
Why is this person something precious to you?
Why aren't you allowed to be medicated?
Why doesn't your therapy help?
