ok so i'm 16 and me and my girlfriend are engaged....but she recently had a car wreck and she has lost most of her memories of me and her....and now it's gettin to a point where i can't get her to ever talk to me. wat do i do?! i'm desperate here!!!

I would say, just hang in there, and if you are a Christian, pray to God. If you aren't, then just don't lose hope, that something might trigger her memories. You never know what will happen. If you want to as well, you could maybe try to help trigger her memories, with something that she loved, or just something that you gave her as a very memorable moment. I hope that this helps. (yes I am a girl)

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I'm a guy, but here's just my opinion. just talk to her like you normally do, but as a stranger. then think of somethings that she loves ( which came from you) or some places where she enjoyed most of her time with you. I mean there's a trigger to every thing. try triggering some events and stuff and maybe she might remember little by little. I suggest you pretend that it's your first time going somewhere with her even if you have been to that place with her. Well don't think my advice will work, I mean, I'm not that good at giving my own opinion. ( and sorry again for being a guy, I just wanna help out a friend who is having troubles.)

I'm so sorry to hear about that. :( I am a Christian too and I'm definitely going to start praying for both you and your fiancé. Hang in there and don't give up on her. If she doesn't remember you, just let her get to know you again. I mean she fell in love with you once, and it's still her even if she doesn't have all her memories, so it can definitely happen again. Plus you have an advantage this time. You already know all about her and know what she likes and what will make her happy. I'm not saying it will be easy or that the situation is good, but there is hope. You can also try triggering her memory with very memorable things like ZAK and Deki said, but don't push her too hard is my advice, or she might get freaked out. That's just my opinion, at least. I really hope everything works out. Oh and I am a girl.

If you really love her, and if she really loves you, then you should be able to fall in love again. Honestly, I think that this is a chance to do over your relationship. You can avoid making mistakes you made with her previously, you can enjoy the love all over again, but it will be hard holding all of these memories that you can't share. So make new ones with her. If she isn't willing to try, then it might be best to move on for both of you. But ONLY if she is really denying you. Hope this helps!

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Pretty much everything Neko said here, (also I'm a guy, but I don't think this situation calls for a girl's opinion anyway so...) but also make sure you aren't bugging her too much about trying to remember. You might not be, but just making sure to clarify that you don't constantly remind her that she is missing her memories, it's prob a very very sad thing for her, and bringing it up will make it worse on her, if she ever remembers anything she will most likely bring it up herself if it is important, or about you two. You might not be doing this already, which would be good, just if you are, take heed of this advice. It must be frustrating for her to have lost her memories, I'm sorry for her... Also not trying to sound mean, but getting engaged at 16 is way early if you asked me... maybe you live in a different cutler, which is ok and all, but that's pretty fast imo