I have no idea what is consider normal parenting or not...
It is verbal abuse to:
-call a kid a brat (angrily and yelling) -threaten to slap them across the face unless they shut up while in an argument -explode into rage yelling ”what the FUCK is wrong with you?! Why are you so fucking rude?!” (when you didnt even say anything that rude) and then when you say “im sorry i was just kidding”, snorting and saying “yeah were you.” -Blaming the kid for everything, taking no responsibility and NEVER saying sorry -Always getting angry at the kid if they seem sad or upset
Is it abuse to:
-Lock a elementary kid out of the house for speaking english -Slap them across the face for no good reason -Make them sit on tile in a weird way to make their legs hurt -Slapping them on the butt when they keep telling them to stop (not as punishment)
Is it a dysfunctional family if:
-Older sister is a drug dealer and does drugs -Younger sister steals from malls and weed from older sister -Parents never say “I love you” (but maybe thats just an asian thing) -Kid never looks parents in eyes, spends all time possible in room -Family never talks about their feelings or how their life is going
And in all the sections, SO much more…i’m just covering the basics.
I don't really know. My dad used to be exactly like that. I don't know why, but he suddenly changed and now he's really nice. I don't know wether it's considered abuse or not, but I don't think it's normal because when I used to tell my friends about my dad, they always seemed pretty shocked.
> 2 yes i told my closest friend and she is shocked too...but idk... > 3 yes it is. but i included that it was for no good reason, because that was when i was in elementary, for getting stressed and struggling to play the piano. i said it was for no good reason because i dont want some people to think i was being very rude or being a brat to my parents so i deserved it
>>4 It's abuse if it happens regularly and does not help you in any way, as far as I know. I have no expertise in this field and I believe you should ask someone who does.
