Okay, so I like this guy for about 3 years(we're classmates) and this year is our last year as classmates cause we'll be graduating on june 27. I haven't told him my feelings yet.I want to tell him but at the same time I kinda don't because what if he reject me? What if he doesn't like me? What if he likes someone else? I've seen him starkng at me sometimes. How do I know if a guy likes you?
I'm a really shy person. I'm also the type of person who avoid rejection as much as I can.I also never dated anyone in my whole life. I don't know what to do. I can't even talk to him..Can you guys give me some advice ? Please?

>>2 have you noticed that almost nobody posts pictures on their posts yet you do it all the time? Quit wasting everyone's Internet with your useless jpgs

>>3 What makes me happy is not for you to decide or judge
I'm sorry if I waste peoples times but I'm being me so I thank you for being honest with me I shall limit my picture posts from now on

>>4 Thank you. The data usage when posting a lot of pictures makes it difficult for people using phones to access the site, so it's preferred they're only posted when necessary. Just upload them to imgur and link them if necessary lol

>>5 again sorry I'm new to this T^T

>>6 It's alright; you'll get used to it :3

Please guys give me some advice..

I'd have given advice in the first place if it were in the Dating Problems Thread like it should be, but since we invaded the thread without commenting about that, here's some:

1) Walk up to him.
2) Tell him how you feel.
3) Make it very clear you're just stating how you feel and won't be offended if he has someone else he likes or doesn't want a relationship.
4) Hear him out.
5) Go on with your life whether he likes you back or not.

It's a lot less awkward if you keep it casual instead of making your embarrassment super obvious, but that depends on how strong you personally are. I also don't suggest confessing to him via text message, etc. because he'll probably take it as a joke at first, which is super awk.

>>9 Thank you, I guess I'll tell him on the last day of school.

>>10 Alright o: Just make sure you have some other way to talk to him, like texting or fb or something. It'd suck for him to say yes, then you to go home and realize neither of you know how to get in contact xD

>>10 If he accepts you, then all's well with the world. If he rejects you with the reason that he isn't interested in you, hen be glad because he's honest. I've been turned down with the excuse "I'm gay" only to see him prancing for girl after girl throughout the 4 years I've crushed on a schoolmate.

(I later found out that he didn't want to like me at all because I was a subject to bullying.)

Be embarrassed, cry all you want about it, but whatever you do - say it to him in person. Be brave. You're feeling a sentiment for him a lot of girls feel in their lifetime. There's nothing to be ashamed of. And if he wants to cut himself off from your life just because you have feelings for him, then he legit sucks.

>>12 im really scared and nervous.. What should I do?? I feel like I don't have the courage anymore.....

if you want to say it , say it . you know the odds : receive rejection and lose your pride or acceptance. if you want to do a certain thing , try to look forward first on what could possibly happen. if you dont have the courage , then f*** your feelings. you dont have to confess.

just being frank . sorry for being mean . ._.

Reluctant heroes always win...Dont give up because im in a similar case as you but i think that you will one day you will find someone who likes you

Reluctant heroes always win...Dont give up because im in a similar case as you but i think that you will one day you will find someone who likes you

just tell it to him. there is always a half percent chance of him accepting your feelings or not. just remember that you must have the courage or you may end up regretting that you didn't told him. it is better for him to know :)

tell him.. that would make a change... just be prepared for his answer :D i tried it once.. and i failed XD

If it helps, I'm in a similar situation as you, anyways you should tell him on the last day of school, that way if he says yes then all is well and if he says no, well... you wont have to see him anymore so theres no need to be embarassed by it :) ( i probably shouldnt give out advice when im just as scared)

even if he rejects you it's ok. you'll have no regrets. tell him your true feelings

Guys, I was late.. He asked out someone today, and now they're dating. It hurts

>>21 Eh, it happens. Telling him your feelings now would be rude. You can either keep in touch and be hopeful, but that would really tie you down. I suggest you move on. A crush you've had for three years that hasn't gone anywhere is a bad sign to begin with. Go find someone you can feel comfortable enough to ask out properly :O

Can we take about how it took 2 weeks whole though?

Oh wait jk actually reread the thread like a normal person. Shouldve warned you it was a bad idea to wait, mai bad.