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Missing someone who hurt me? (3)

1 Name: nekokanno : 2014-06-08 16:53 ID:8xa1wEup [Del]

I was really good friends with a guy before I began to date him. It was on and off and he made things really confusing for a long time. I fell in love with him like an idiot. Eventually he broke it off with me saying he wasn't ready for a relationship. I accepted this and tried to be his friend again. While doing this, he got together with his ex girlfriend, after telling me he wasn't ready for a relationship. I was rightfully pissed and questioned him about it. He brushed it off like he didn't care what I was feeling. So I stopped trying with him. A friend of mine who was also close to him showed me messages of how he really felt. In these messages he said he never really had feelings for me at all and he was just confused at the time. I stopped speaking to him. Though now I miss him so much. I don't know if I should forgive him and try to be his friend again, or just move on. He did toy with me a lot. What should I do?

2 Name: Ignis !elBkaSkdiE : 2014-06-08 17:08 ID:ij5yidhE [Del]

He treats you like you're dispensable. Now, I wouldn't advise or suggest for you to be a bitch towards him (even though he sounds like he rightfully deserves such treatment).

However, if his presence around you aggravates you too much, or if he tries to pull another jerk move on you, then by all means waaalk awaaay. For now though, just do your own thing, talk to him like usual, and act as if the mess never happened if you want things to go back to the friendship part.

3 Name: Sollia16 : 2014-06-08 20:06 ID:azFneMAd [Del]

I was in the exact same situation not too long ago. Its better to just forget the guy. If he did stuff like that its best to leave him, move on, and trust me your life will be better when he's gone because you will enjoy a lot more things in life that you may not have noticed when you were trying to figure out the stuff that he did to confuse you.