I met this guy a while ago and he's amazing. He's a bit judgmental and hypocritical but he's smart,likes what I like and has a similar back story like mine. His body is beautiful and I've never felt this way about a boy and I'm afraid that I might be gay. I need advice now!!

I think I may be gay for this boy.

yep you probably are gay, at least for him. yay you.

Mind giving some background to what your relationship with this boy is?

>>2 How comfortable is he with you?

He's a friend that goes to school with me and he doesn't know that I like him. Also I'm pretty sure that he's secretly gay because one time in the locker room I swear he got a hard on. Plus he's always around boys and when a girl comes on to him (and I'm talking about really hot girls) he turns them down. Also he always makes homoerotic comments.

I like girls to and stuff. But I'm afraid that I'm turning fey.

I don't think that it matters having a 'sexual orientation'. If you love who you love what should it matter being homosexual, bisexual, heterosexual, or whatever. Just be you and if you like him that's great! Don't let others bring you down about it.

I doubt you're turning gay dude. Actually you may be in a similar boat to mine. I identify as strait, yet there is a boy that's had my eye for some time. In both our cases, I think this may be closer to infatuation more than anything, but there's always time to experiment! xD Don't freak out about this. Approach the situation delicately, and if you feel like you wanna go for it, go for it.

I never really understood why some people can say things like, "I didn't choose to be born as the son/daughter of a ___!" and accept the person after that, but never really come to terms with, "I didn't choose to be born as a boy/girl/herm!"

Quite honestly, if I identify a soul that I want to be with very much, even if it's in a body that's "out of my perceived comfort zone", I'll accept that. Unless he or she's walking around with eight legs and compounds eyes, then yeah, maybe in another life, I will be your girl. :lol:

OP should however weigh the consequences of possibly being rejected, though. I took 2 years to confess to a Catholic girl back then when I was 15? 16? Her reaction surprised me. "I'm happy." (Of course, we can't be together because, well, I wouldn't want to put her through the hardship.) My only fear was to disgust her with my feelings because of the poisonous thoughts people around her beat into her mind (or tried to).

I hope you get a Good Ending, mate.

Also, >>10 -- that post is perfect. Know where it's from?

Afraid not sorry >>11