>>1 okay... You have two options.
1. Befriend her. If you really love her then friendship in itself should be enough. However, it makes it harder for you to move onto someone else and/or move on in general.
2. Move on now. It might just be infatuation. Yes it'll hurt and it will suck but doing it now would make it easier on you than just waiting it out for her. Someone else will come along, there are so many people on this planet and if it's not her, then there's someone else out there waiting for you.
I hope that this helps.