I have a "former" friend (I'll call her N). She loves attention and people talking about her (even though she says she doesn't). There is a guy (I'll call him D) who is absolutely in love with N. He is somewhat popular, but not the most attractive person around. N is not very popular and looks okay (compared to other girls I know). Anyways, the entire school year, and a little before then, D had been trying to get N to go out with him. He wrote her love letters, bought her gifts, complimented her, and tried to spend as much time with her as he could. N didn't share his feelings (which I understand), but she went about it in such a terrible way. First she'd flirt with him and lead him on. When he builds the confidence to ask her out she says no and yells at him. He is a fairly confident person which really bothers her, so she will say things like, "You are so ugly!" "You are so fat." "No one likes you." "You are so gay." and etc. If I ever step in to stop her she completely flips out at me. Yet he still loves her. Then she would stare at him in class and if he looks back she would yell, "Stop looking at me!" It all came down to a few days ago. My sophomore class came together in a single room to celebrate the end of a few hard projects and reflect on the year. Near the end, D brought his guitar out and wanted to play a song. Turns out he found out what N's favorite song was and learned how to play it on the guitar and knew all the lyrics. He got the best female singer in our class to sing with him. N knew this and made sure everyone looked at D and formed a circle around him. Then N hid behind me (even though I was closest to D) instead of sitting in the back or something, gaining everyone to stare at us (I kept looking at my phone turning it on and off to make it less awkward for me). When he began the song he some how get behind me to N and tried to sing the lyrics to her, but before he could do anything she threw her hands up yelling "I'm leaving!" and left the class. D got supper embarrassed and left too, leaving me with everyone's eyes on me (I am super shy and awkward so I started clapping). Now N is getting mad at me for not doing anything for her (everyone thinks she is very mean now) and people won't stop asking me why she acted like that! I don't know what to do! I am too deep in something I don't really care about. HELP!

This is all I can say about N. She's an a**hole base on your tale. Well, D needs an eye check-up or counseling I guess.
You can't do anything about it but leave as it is. Choose your friends carefully next time.

Ehhh I don't think this is a "you can't do anything" matter. Um, I agree that she's a total a**h*le though.
You can be blunt and tell the people about the matters between N and D, and tell how N was rude to D and stuffs, and everything she did. If she hates you for that let her, she doesn't deserve to be your friend, nor D's girlfriend. Tell D to find someone better, hopefully if the other people hear about it they'll tell D to find someone better too.

yea N sounds a little bitchy. but your friend D is kind of an idiot. women hate it if a man values them more then they value the man you shouldn't give yourself up to women like that its degrading he should have pride in himself and not chase after hoe bags. I could probably talk a long time about this stuff but im lazy lol

>>4 Hmm....wondering if you've ever met a girl in your life ;)

Sounds like the only problem here is that you're not enjoying being the target of bystander inquiries... Have you ever considered wearing a mask?

uh yea I have met a girl she said she liked me but I made her not like me because I tried too hard and I was needy and now shes going out with her old bf lol I guess im a little bias of women because of her

Your friends an idiot and that's it. She doesn't know how to handle the attention he's giving her and she's avoiding the situation in manners that are quite wrong in my opinion..

I don't endorse domestic violence or anything in relation to this but slap the bitch. she needs it.

N sounds like she would be the worst friend ever. You should tell her to stop being a total bitch and tell her D is just trying to be nice. If she gets mad and flips out on you just get really angry at her and flip out also. That is just my opinion you can do whatever you think is right if you want to.

N sounds like she would be the worst friend ever. You should tell her to stop being a total bitch and tell her D is just trying to be nice. If she gets mad and flips out on you just get really angry at her and flip out also. That is just my opinion you can do whatever you think is right if you want to.

N sounds like she would be the worst friend ever. You should tell her to stop being a total bitch and tell her D is just trying to be nice. If she gets mad and flips out on you just get really angry at her and flip out also. That is just my opinion you can do whatever you think is right if you want to.

N sounds like she would be the worst friend ever. You should tell her to stop being a total bitch and tell her D is just trying to be nice. If she gets mad and flips out on you just get really angry at her and flip out also. That is just my opinion you can do whatever you think is right if you want to.

Well for starters, N's a bitch. You could find better friends and D can find a better girlfriend than her. Tell her to stop being such a faggot and that she should try to let him down easier instead of leading him on and then rejecting him. That's a serious dick move. You should talk to D and convince him to move on, then deal with N.

Tell N that if she wants your help, she's going to have to stop being so ridiculous. Then just leave it. Leave her alone. Float above the drama.
In the meantime, I would be nice to D, but you don't have to apologize to anyone for N's actions. Don't take responsibility for her idiotic decisions.