Please help me I beg you! I dont know what to do...

I have a boyfriend and he is so gentle carig loveable and adorable. I love him a lot. And he loves me more than i love him. He likes me a lot.

The peoblem is; I like another person.
And that person is a... girl. She has a boyfriend too. I love her a lot and im in love with her. She is so cute adorable....
Im in love.

And Im new to this. I knew i was bisexual but i acted as if i was straight but... she... damn.

She said she loves me and it seems that she learned that i loved her. She says "i will break up with my bf."

I want to break up with mine too but... damn it i love him.

How can a heart love two people at the same time?! Damn it.

Guys I want to be with her but i dont know how i will break up with my boyfriend. I told him that i was bisexual and he was like "Oh... Okay; I will keep this secret."

Guys help me... I want to break up with him but i just cant... we have been dating for 2 months. I loved this girl for... 4 years.

I loved her a lot but i was afraid to tell and.... she told me that i was her first love.

Guys im confused im crying guys.... help please i dont know what to do... im so new to this but i love her... i cant take my eyes off her...

Help me dollars...

Because love isn't like a story book. It's not real. It's your body's cute little trick to try and get you to breed. It's nature and we are nothing but animals.

Also, you're probably not really bisexual and even if you love this girl and your "bf" I'm sure you'll fall in and out of love with a few more people before you're out of high school.

>>2 This, basically.

>>1 Every consider asking if they'd be willing to three way? Most guys would jump at the chance of having 2 girlfriends who like to do each other, and your lady might like the idea as well. Probably not, but it's worth a try.

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>>3 are you kidding me?! Im not like THAT. And he is kind of homophobic. Dude i can never have two, its against me.
>>2 yes we are animals but dude thats just like; if we are animals why dont we go and rape all the people outside? Thats a wrong way of thinking. And im in highshool last year.

>>5 Because animals don't go around raping each other? Just because the neighborhood dog in heat will deflower the nearest unleashed poodle doesn't mean the entire animal kingdom is like that.

What Chrome is saying is that it's just your hormones trying to make you think you "love" them. Love may or may not be real, but if it's real, you're not going to feel it for multiple people at once; it'd be monogamous. You're just glorifying the lust to make yourself feel like a nice person. You like two people who get you horny - big deal. Pick 2, 1, or 0.

Also, lol. Your monogamous morals obviously aren't as high as you think if you find yourself liking more than one person at a time.

Anyway, let's figure this out.

Your girlfriend would ditch her guy for you, okay. Now let's see how dedicated your homophobic boyfriend is. Go tell him that you're bisexual. If he is okay with it, then he's still on the table, if he isn't, then you stay with the girl.

If he's still on the table, then you can move on to tell him that there's a girl you like just as much as him. If he gets mad, then stay with the girl, because the girl is okay with you having liked someone else which causes less drama.

If he doesn't get mad, then he's still on the table, and you can ask him if he's willing to do a threesome with her. If he's not for it, then explain your feelings more thoroughly to him so he knows how you feel. You'll have to work it out from there. If he does happen to be up for it, then you can make it a more long-term thing and nab yourself two dates. Ka-pow.

Dude i can NEVER do a threesome. And i already told him i was bi and he was uncomfortable. But still accepted it. Sigh.

I'm not sure whether I'm a little late on helping or not, but here is some advice from me.
I'll tell you a small story first, My friend's (ex) girlfriend--we'll call her Sally for the sake of the story. Anyways, she said she loved my friend and this guy the same. And had a hard time choosing. But, she ended up going with the guy despite being with my friend for however long.
Sally said that she felt like my friend liked her more than she did and it was a one sided relationship.
So, I guess the point to it is that just go about your pros and cons. Honestly though, if I were you I would break up with your boyfriend and go with the girl, I mean since you are saying that you've loved the girl for four years and she's willing to be with you. It should be a no brainer :)

I feel your pain. there are actually three people i like and one of them is a girl and i am a girl. but think about it this way; imagine kissing both people the one you feel less weird about kissing probably is the better one to go out with. also think about how being in a relationship with this girl would affect your life. if you fell bbeing with another girl could wrok, then fabuals :) just follow your heart.