>>1 Hey i know you're clearly trying not to look like you're blaming everything on your mom, but truthfully, accept it, you are
Well, important things like whether your mom is trying or not or simply things like to check on your father's obsession might be a good way to help yourself
It is quite understandable that you feel tired and frustrated or probably irritated that your mom does not seem to care, but all these emotions are simply normal
Take one step a time , i advice that you try sending her through a rehab, eventhough it sounds harsh
No matter how much you think you tried for your mom, your mom would not understand not because she doesnt see your effort but she feels like it is impossible to
Persuade your sister to stop escaping , support your sister whenever she needs you
If you feel worried, confide with someone whom is close to you
or trash it all out , rant and rage through words
Feel free to express how you feel on Dollars
but take note of the rules here
Please ask your family members to take care, dont resolve to something silly =]
I wish Good Luck