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Misunderstanding (5)

1 Name: Kumo : 2014-05-09 10:18 ID:NMTaIO+H [Del]

well, I'm in a relationship, I have a boyfriend and yes I am happy to be with him, but I also have a best friend. She's someone I really really treasure and now She's saying that she is bisexual. Of course, nothing is wrong with that, right? because I know myself, that I am bisexual too. But the more she gives me hints about the person she loves or has a crush on, the more I start to wonder if it's me. We have a good friendship and we've known each other for about a year now, and I'm really starting to wonder if her feelings for me is different from mine. I just want to keep our friendship the way it is, nothing more and nothing less. I don't want to hurt he or hurt my boyfriend too, i cherish my boyfriend deeply, but how will I continue with this confusion going on?!

2 Name: kassy : 2014-05-09 11:10 ID:AYerD/UA [Del]

maybe you should talk it out with her or if your not comfortable talking about it ask a friend to talk to her

3 Name: Hollow!JV3BNEBGzo : 2014-05-09 11:13 ID:mhrnY1ci [Del]

Just don't freak out or give it a lot of thought, the more u think about it the more confused u will be... Wait and see, don't jump to conclusions.
If she is in love with you she will eventually tell you and can find a way to tell her without hurting her feelings, use your feminine touch and be nice! ;)

4 Name: Schiff !iXDATQ8n1o : 2014-05-09 22:49 ID:2Jr8IYj8 [Del]

First off you're going to have to sit this girl down and talk. Tell her exactly how you feel about your guys's current situation and draw a line so she doesn't try to make a move. This is healthy for both you and her since she'll have time to get over where instead of being mislead and heart broken. Try to be tactful about it and all that bizz wizz.

Good luck!

5 Name: Neko-tama!EQ2c47V0Ps : 2014-05-10 00:15 ID:yAPFd8Dv [Del]

>>1 one of my friends is, well, in love with me but I cherish our friendship and I don't have the same romantic feelings for her. And I've told her that, but only because she had confessed to me before hand. I think that you should honestly give her the benefit of the doubt, just support her as a friend and continue being with your boyfriend. I hope this helps ^^