I want to die It seems whatever I do I end up the person that’s left to dry and it’s my one fault what is going down there is this girl that I like well I think I love her but when I expand my feelings to her she seed let me think but she was also talking to her ex yet she asked my advice because that’s something she always does because I never tell her what to do I let her work her way to what she really wants so I gave her impartial advice so that she could choose the person that makes her the happiest the most never once telling her my gut reaction about the guy and never let my feelings get in the way of her decision so in the end she chooses him and wants me to stay as a friend (Kill me now) and I say ok and in a stupid move to make her happy and hopefully get her to like me in the same way (love) I tell her that those emotions I had are gone (stupid right) so now I’m in her words the one person she needs in her life as a constant (her friend best friend) and I’m the only person that she trusts more than anyone (including her ex/bf weird right )now I’m stuck getting my heat broken every time I talk to her (kuz it reminds me she does not love me back) and I don’t want to stop talking to her kuz it makes me happy to talk to her at the same time and it would kill her (and me to) if I left and stopped talking to her. If I tell her my true emotions I know what will happen (nothing) she will still stay with the other guy and just stop talking to me about some of the things that are going on in her life that I might be able to help with it’s a long scenario to read but if yall can pleez help me figure out what to do

>>1 loving someone so much that all you want is their own happiness over your's is tough but you need to think and consider the options you have. You can either love her from a distance, just as long as she's happy then you're happy, with out without you as her romantic interest, like being her friend alone is enough for you. Or tell her that it's too hard and heartbreaking to be around her anymore and that you can't be her friend and that you're sorry, just tell her the truth.
But please don't kill yourself, you'll find love again, stay hopeful :3

thank you i will think extremely hard on thees thoughts thank you

I'm no expert to help you but I hope you can get through! Stay strong and don't kill yourself,I'm sure you can do it.

Don't kill yourself, friend. Listen to Neko-Tama. They speak true. You can do this, after all, you are a dollar and you've made it /this/ far.

Don't kill yourself, friend. Listen to Neko-Tama. They speak true. You can do this, after all, you are a dollar and you've made it /this/ far.

I'm gonna be real with you right now and say just drop everything. I went through the EXACT same thing you did with this girl my freshman year. If I would've just told her how I actually felt and told her to give me time so sort shit out and hang with other people, it would've been leagues better than the shit I went through for her. Tell her how you feel, tell her if you don't feel the same way then to give you time to get over her, and make some new friends. Please take this from a guy who was in your shoes two years ago, and don't fuck it up and cling to her like you're doing right now, I guarantee you that'll be one of the worst mistakes you'll ever make.

Good luck!

Good luck