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I can't take this anymore... (15)

1 Name: Geo : 2014-04-30 10:10 ID:VltecLLD [Del]

Sorry but I'm going to lash out here...
I dunno what to do, my head is blank, my hearts hurts, I can't concentrate doing things coz my parents fight all the time. They used to be quite romantic n good couple coz my mom found out my dad got another girl he likes (she's only 7 years older than me). My dad said he didn't do a thing w/ the girl and he would stop contacting her, but it repeated for a few time, like he contacted her w/ facebook/ went to her country for work reason (I dunno whether he's lying or not, but he kept this from my fam, till my mom found out).

They fought like once a week, then dun care about each other, then almost make up, but the fight again. My mom even tried to cut her wrist these days. I dunno what to do because no matter what I said to my mom and dad they won't try to change themselves. I asked them if they still want to stay together/ separate...They just dun change their atttitude to each other. I'm done. I'm so tired physically and mentally today. I gave up...

I have many things to think n do this year, uni stuff and work stuff, this semester is so fucking hard and I'm struggling w/ all my best, yet, I still have to deal w/ them...I've done my best to convince them to reconcile/ maybe do this less painful, but to me they just dun seem to care and only think their self first, dun wanna listen to me at all...I'm done, I really dunno what to do anymore...

2 Name: Infitix : 2014-04-30 14:05 ID:eX7EDIKc [Del]

Have you tried talking to them about your difficulty on studying?
Maybe they'll understand your prob and find a solution. That might solve things out

3 Name: Heroic !7sNcPyqwoM : 2014-04-30 18:57 ID:QuDOJRdD [Del]

(SFW)

Hey, listen. I'm not one to say "I know what you mean" but don't just give up on it. When parents fight, it's the worst thing, I know, I have parents too you know. But you think too much about it. You kinda have to stop complicating your life about it. You're letting that stress control your life. You're going to live at your own house anyways. If you're in university, you should know this well. I'm also on this level. Just don't care about them. But if you want another answer, try to make your opinion visible to them. But knowing parents, it's gonna be hard. But try your best to calm your mother so that she doesn't cut her wrists. Please, that's a risk there. Just keep helping your mom.

As for you, calm down. Relax. Just think for a minute. Don't let that situation bother you so much. But I'm not telling you to be a cold person either. Just don't complicate it inside your head. Look. if you want help, contact me at

heroic.duelist@gmail.com

okay? I hope this helps.

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5 Name: Neko-tama!EQ2c47V0Ps : 2014-04-30 20:58 ID:yAPFd8Dv [Del]

>>1 it's their relationship and their lives and you really should be thinking more about yourself, you don't have to worry about them so much. Just worry more about yourself and ignore them as best as you can. Good luck.

6 Name: Geo : 2014-05-01 06:53 ID:VltecLLD [Del]

thx u for all the replies...I feel a bit better now. I'll do my best to avoid being depressed and concentrate on my own life more...

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8 Name: Geo : 2014-05-01 10:44 ID:VltecLLD [Del]

Well, they fought again...after made up last night n this morning...They fought again n my mom drank 10 pills...I managed to break them up and they're not in the same room anymore...I gave milk to neutralizer the drugs...But truthfully I dunno what to do anymore...

9 Name: Meyuku : 2014-05-01 13:52 ID:wylaqo09 [Del]

It will be alright .It is a real problem but you should talk to them and to tell them how you are really troubled by their fights .There is only one thing why them are together and that reason is you their child I am sure that they would find a solution for you to be agian a happy family . Don't forget that you are from dollars too and you can change the world too why don't you start with changing your parents first? We all support you! :)

10 Name: Geo : 2014-05-04 13:02 ID:VltecLLD [Del]

I'll try my best...Thx u

11 Name: FairyGemi : 2014-05-05 12:49 ID:oVR7/x/B [Del]

i had the same problem and when i talked to them and told what i tought of it the stopped for the most part. i talked first alone to each and a week later with both of them.
Wish you all the luck of the word

12 Name: Akio Ren : 2014-05-06 03:14 ID:qzvnK43u [Del]

Don't worry! Work hard and get over with this semester.Let your parents handle their stuff, only thing you have to do is study so that you don't have nay other problems in the future!
We (dollars members) are with you!! always!!

13 Name: Geo : 2014-05-06 05:14 ID:VltecLLD [Del]

Thx u everyone^^

14 Name: Mei-chi : 2014-05-06 11:25 ID:u4DUmYp0 [Del]

I know the feeling. My parents just found out I had depression and I'm finnalu gonna go see a counsellor. My parents fight over who's fault it is and I'm getting tired just stay strong is all I can say I guess

15 Name: Geo : 2014-05-07 09:46 ID:VltecLLD [Del]

>>14 Our case is a bit different and I'm not in position to give any advice, yet, please stay strong and dun give up. I'll do my best too, try focus on ur life more and talk to ur parents^^