So I have a boyfriend and he kinda ignores me. Its not being ignored but... its like im the most important second thing.
We cant talk much since he changed schools and he isnt available all the time. We chat on Fridays on the phone.
However he plays computer games and forgets that we are talking.

I am fine with that but... it just makes me sad. I write sth and he replies when he finishes an one hour game.

I feel sad. But he still loves me. He really loves me and i just love talking to him. But he just cant give me a lot of time.

Can someone help? Thanks :/

If I were to be you, I'd break up to teach him a lesson.
If he 'really' loves you, then he shouldn't behave like that.

I would advise you to talk about this matter with him, tell him what worries you.
Anyways good luck.

If he really loves you, why would he spend his whole time playing games than hanging out with you? If you could play games with him, that would be awesome though. It will improve your relationship.

I agree with >>2. You should break up with him. He deserves it.

Don't be fooled. I got into a relationship where I love talking to my boyfriend. We'd text all day even class hours and he told me millions of times he loved me.

I hated myself for believing his words.

Tell him what to choose in one thing me or the computer games.... i understand that situation Juliet He doesn't give you spending time to love you or care like just dating or shopping .....

Its okay to spend playing computers sometimes but not all the time its makes you addicted in games so he doesn't to talk anyone specially you Juliet .

>>3 if you were interested play a games to him so why you join him just for recreation.... but if he doesn't care to play you with games then break up on him ......

If your heart really hurt spend time with your friends or Hang out with your family with your brother and sister or other relatives there to forget him....

Sorry Juliet if my English Rip but i tried my best to speak english

>>1I know this feeling. It sucks so bad. But you need to ask yourself first is he worth it? Do you have a possible future together? Stuff like that. You also need to talk to him about it, tell him that if you only talk on Fridays then he'd better pay attention to you because it hurts you when he doesn't, and if he doesn't change then break up with him. You could also try phone conversations too, or Skype.

>>3 he wants to teach me how to play that game and i dont want to break up with him. I just love him a lot. And i believe his words. Even though we dont talk much we mean a lot. He has done so much for me and we have been going out for a year. I know he loves me. We dont sweet talk like other couples we mostly joke and have fun together. He is like a best friend more than a boyfriend.
>>4 thanks and your English is good :D Also you are right, he is addicted to that game he barely talks to anyone.
>>5 we mostly use skype. The problem is im scared of talking to him. I just envy the computer games, a lifeless thing. I dont want him to know this and act weirder ._.

>>6 it's okay to be afraid to talk about it but you are in a relationship together, sometimes you have to talk about things. Just be honest and tell him how you feel, just tell him you're lonely, he should understand ^^

I think don't trust too much to your bf Juliet If she really loves you he always besides you and he cares everyday .....

But now he influence you to play that games i wish don't play too much Juliet i don't know what will happened if you are addicted in that game.... Don't ruined your reputation in just play games and there is a future or goal to be achieved in life anyway if you really love him its your choice Juliet....

Love is kind a' crazy like that. Obviously every relationship is different and all relationships bend in different ways in certain areas but I can understand why you'd be in question about your relationship with your boyfriend vs. the relationship between your boyfriend and that game. If it works for you than I guess there's not much you should worry about. However, I would not advise you to be walked all over in this relationship if it feels that's way. If something seems off then you'd know. But as I said before, loves a crazy kind of thing like that.

>>6 I see. It is hard to lose a bestfriend rather than a boyfriend. I can't help you a lot. I'm sorry but I could suggest that you should talk to him. It's better if you talk to him in person because talking to him via phone or computer may distract him. Don't be afraid to speak up to him. Be brave. Just don't talk about games. Talk about how you feel in your situation. He should understand that. I agree with Neko-tama. >>8. Open up your feelings to him. That's all I could suggest. Sorry if it wasn't enough. If something goes wrong, you need something to cool off like spending your time with your friends or family. Don't think about him too much but try not to forget him.

One thing that bothered me was, how can he be unavailable all the time if he has a time to spend computer games? That hurts a lot.

Like what a lot of people are saying here, I suggest that you go talk to him. A guy who gets into a relationship with another girl better be ready to give his all to that one girl, and from what you're saying here, it doesn't seem that way.

UNLIKE what plenty of people are saying here, he could just be scared to actually be with you. I'm not making any accusations here, but your boyfriend could probably be struggling to find a fitting environment. I'm not saying you're not the perfect one for him, but the video games he plays may be another way to get his mind off of some of the many things distracting him in life.

One thing you could do is try and take him to a park, or maybe a walk. You two could maybe settle things there. Just take it easy. Good luck!