>>3I don't want to be the bearer of bad news but his words aren't "untrue". If that is indeed how he feels, then those words are as true to him as life is to us. Opinions are all true. Some are just stupid to the rest of us.
>>4Actually, you should distrust people a lot, especially these days. I mean, you don't have to go on a 'go fuck yourself' campaign or anything, but take everything with a grain of salt unless you have absolute confirmation. The birth of the internet has resulted in a lot of people thinking they can troll both online and IRL, and get away with it. Don't give anyone a chance unless you are ready to get betrayed or lied to.
And finally, OP.
>>1Here is the conclusion I personally reached after many years of observation. You don't need friends. In fact, you would be much better without them. Friends themselves are a pain in the ass. I barely have any myself. Of course, that isn't going to work now is it? There aren't a lot of people willing to choose the loner life.
I have adopted a sort of system used to deal with this. It's basically indifference but isn't. When I meet someone, I befriend them if I feel like it (with all my charisma) but I understand something from the start. I understand that they may betray me and lie. I prepare myself for that from the start. However, I weigh each potential area they can betray me in. If they talk shit about me behind my back, so what? If they say I'm annoying, I'll evaluate it. I'll see if what they say has some relevance to me. If it does, I'll fix it. I still won't talk to them because they didn't have the balls to confront me about it and if I do forgive them, I'll treat them as if they aren't worth shit to me. Remember, they lost YOU, not the other way around. Make them rely on you.
It's basically realizing that people can't hurt you unless you let them. Emotionally, that is.
Your case is rather mild and easy to deal with. I actually had a so-called "friend" of mine betray me to the point that I got arrested and sent to jail. When things can escalate like this, shit gets real and people start dying. That's why you never let it reach that point.
Point is, I don't care if you betray me. You aren't even needed for my existence. Friends are a commodity not a necessity.
And I swear if I ever meet that asshole again, he's dead.