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do i tell her (7)

1 Name: Wolfman : 2014-04-02 10:49 ID:UBc2UCeV [Del]

So I got a problem and I hope you all can help
I have been friends with this girl for 2 years now I bet you can see wear this is going. so the first time we met she had a BF but then she broke it off then we really started talking and we both liked one another but I never asked her out so we were never oafishly dating and I had to move away we still were texting though and I would go back and surprise her every so offend. A few month ago she started getting close to me emotionally and it scared me so I lied and pushed her away and let her believe I was a bad guy that had been ling through the whole relationship thing so she threw me out and stopped talking to me I instantly regretted it and confessed that it was a lie a few weeks later but she was of cores still mad and continued not talking to me during this time she got a new BF. Almost a month ago she started talking to me again because she and her BF were going through a brake and she seed that she believes that I’m not that bad guy I led her to believe and she needs advice on how to go through this break up but thin her BF seed that he does not want to break up and she did but did not want to. I thought during this time thought my emotions were obvious (that I still liked her allot) but they weren’t they never are she now sees she wants a relationship with this other guy and wants me always to be there. So do I tell her how I feel and hope she will want to date me to or just stay where I am

2 Name: Roorando : 2014-04-02 12:42 ID:BiuHPJf8 [Del]

That was rather complex, you shouldn't have lied in the first place, always think twice before you do something, or you might regret it later.
But still, she is mad at you for doing these things, so you should tell her about your honest feelings. She will do the next step.

3 Name: Wolfman : 2014-04-02 15:02 ID:UBc2UCeV [Del]

thank you i will

4 Name: Fazeon : 2014-04-02 20:29 ID:Ox7Cg6Yf [Del]

>>1 I'll start of with this...

Never. Ever. Lie to a girl about your feelings about her. That's a really bad idea, and should never be attempted.

Back on topic, you should talk to her about how you felt about her, and things of the such. It would be best to do this in person, as it would be more.. Say, genuine. Ask for her forgiveness about everything you've put her through. Tell her everything you felt about her, don't stop until she gets it, and then just keep going. She will decide on what happens next.

Good luck!

5 Name: foreversigh!wQfr6KA0vQ : 2014-04-02 23:37 ID:8kd8gHWS [Del]

Would you still want her if she wasn't the kind of person to understand and forgive you? Or is that not how it works?
I don't know much about this kind of thing but I will say that it's best to be open about it to her. The other thing is to not take love lightly because it's a really big thing so don't just through the word love around. If you know someone well enough and for a long enough time to think that you love them then won't they feel the same? I think that you have to be patient with this kind of thing and see how it plays out.
This is just my opinion. Like I said I don't know much about this kind of thing. Good luck :D

6 Name: Wolfman : 2014-04-03 00:49 ID:UBc2UCeV [Del]

thank you all for the help i was unable to see her in person but i did call her and told her how i felt she did forgive me and she reevaluated our relationship I’m not positive what the end result will be but i do feel beater not having that on my chest now i can only hope thank you again

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