So... for the past three years there's been this girl. She's a pain and for these past years I've been able to put up with her. She's like those book characters who nobody likes, but there's no way of getting rid of her cause she always bounces back. She tends to think she's above everyone else and always make fun of the people when they struggle. I always hide my feelins, but they tend to resurface, anyways. I'm thinking of finally standing up to her and stop her constant harashment to my friends and me. Problem is I've never been expected to be, how you say i guess, a leader. It scares me and I'm just really nervous. Any advice?

>>2 just tell her off confidently. My advice is just go for it, try your best to erase the doubts in your mind, you're doing the right thing, that's the most important thing. Keep calm and try your best not to shout. Good luck~! ^.^

Just handle it in a calm manner. If you want to really ROFL stomp her, make sure you seem smart about it; if she insults you, just shrug it off and think of it as nothing. Remember, the only thing she would want from you is to get mad, and if you don't show her anything, you'll just get her mad instead. Don't forget that you're only trying to get your point across though, as you don't want yourself looking as bad as her. Anyway, good luck. Its nice to see people fight back against these kind of things. Its rare for me to see, but when it happens, it one hell of a thing to see.

Im not sure of your situation but i think you should tell her straight in the face. PLUS, I think if you secretly feel irritated and all your friends secretly dislike that person,there is a possibility that the person might know.You might be even more irritating then that person is. Its better to tell her , rather than letting things blow up. Thats what i think.