I really don't know what to do right now so I'd really appreciate if you'll give some advice. I might really be close in breaking down right now.
Well you see, I have this 3 friends. I had them now by 3 years, and right now we've been in a fight. It's been more than 1 month right now and we're not even close into making up. The problem started when I had when they began to drift apart from me. I have other friends too, that's why I try as hard as I could to be with each other. Then out of nowhere I felt that I was abandoned by them. To leave you around because their work is more important to you, not talking to you. Things like that happened. I tried talking to them but they won't respond to me, even if they did, they just left me hanging. I thought they knew why I hated them but it seems no. They never knew what they did wrong, they'll just realize it when you spoon feed it to them, the reason why you got mad. Then just this week, I had communication with one of them. That's the part where I had to explain to her what was happening. She felt bad and I felt worst as things went on. Our messages to each other turned into opening old wounds. and then she said this:
Also, no one ever said that you had to spend time with us you know, at that point we were already drifting apart anyway. Plus it's hard to believe hearing it now, you wanted to spend time with us? I'm sorry we didn't notice, you had your own friends, personally I didn't think we mattered to you anymore
It was particularly hard for me to learn this, there was a lot more things we said to each other, but let's not mind that for now. That statement made me felt that what I did, accompanying them everyday as to keep them from drifting away from me became meaningless. Anyway, I'd really want your advice. It'll be only a few more days before our graduation, and if nothing happened, I guess this friendship have to end. That was my last choice, and if I could avoid that last choice, I'd really be grateful.

I am just going say is make new friends. Not really that much of helping but, that is all I can give you.

>>1 for a relationship to work you need effort from both sides and if they don't want to put in the effort then the best thing to do is to move on with your life. Friendships come and go and yes sometimes friends drift apart, it's sad but it happens and sometimes there's nothing that you can really do. The best thing to do is for you to apologize and move on with your life.

>>1 You've tried your best putting as much effort into your friendship as possible, and to be honest with you, it just seems like she just doesn't want to be friends with you. You spent time with them BECAUSE you wanted to stay friends, not because you had to. She just seems to be craving attention, just from her stating that she thought you didn't matter to her anymore. Simply put, I think you should move on from this. Like >>3, you shouldn't put effort into a friendship or relationship, if the other person isn't going to put the same effort as much as you.

I think this is ridiculous, no offense.As much as you think they are leaving you hanging, aren't you leaving them hanging too. Why do you think the problem is in them, when it might have been you. Listen, for example, to you ,you think they don't respond, to them they think why are you avoiding them, then they feel guilty for basically the fact that you don't tell them. you stated you hated them and they should have known why, if you really put in effort and try to ask them why they do not respond to you. You make them look like they're always in the wrong. Everyone has their own hardship, they might not understand, you might not understand.
So you decided on your own that they abandon you, you hated them and they did the exact same thing you did.
both you and them did not exactly try, you just felt bad.

Unlike >>4 I think that you did try but did not take other things into consideration. The other things they said to you might sound mean, but did they tell you how they rly felt. Did you tell the truth.
Those little trivia that you never notice might harm your friendship
im gonna say that you guys can try starting over, try taking the initiative, be prepared for the outcome and don't cry if it is bad.
GOOD LUCK!!!!

>>5 I did take it into consideration but it might not have been enough. I was rash with my decision and that's true. Maybe I've been too focused with myself, I got too blinded I ignored what they were feeling. Thank you for noticing things I haven't, though things have been going for the worst this days. I'll take the initiative, I'll say sorry like what >>3 suggested. If things wouldn't work then I just have to move on with my life and try hard not to cry. Thanks again.. ^_^
>>3, >>4 Thank you for your encouragements. Yes, I did my best but I should also try to understand them once more. If nothing goes the good way, I'll take your suggestions then and move on.. :)
>>2 Thank you.. ^^

>>6 you should also remember that crying is healthy and if you're sad you should cry and don't try not too. Good luck with everything ^^