I need some advice about love. I've lived kind of a sad life, I'm in my first year of college and not once have I ever been in a romantic relationship. I used to feel lonely and kind of depressed about it, because I've asked girls out (and yes I was friends with them) but they all turned me down and eventually started to avoid me. I'm starting to feel the urge to start a relationship, but there isn't anyone I "love". I don't really have time to meet people, one because I'm 19 so I can't go out to bars or anything, and two because I just go to school and then head home right after. I've joined a school organization but It's mainly just guys and one girl (who already has a boyfriend), so there's really no chance of meeting anyone there.

Anybody got any advice on what I can do to help my situation?

I'm not exactly Casanova (read: No romantic experience whatsoever) but I think your best bet would be to get yourself out there. Make more friends, join a sport, find some clubs you can fit into your schedule, etc. If none of that is viable, you can always try finding someone online. And lastly, in case your thinking "long distance relationships don't work out" you're wrong. My parents met online, didn't meet until 1 1/2 years after dating and have been together for 20+ years.

I got the same problem. Iv lost the connection to love a person and I'm 19 in college, joined a sport and making friend fast by using my get-a-friend-fast skill. If you keep having problems with love you could come to me to talk about it. I'm always online at night. Other from that here is your problem. You have the urge to love someone but you only just met a few girls you know but cant get anywhere because they always turn you down. Do me a favor and stick in the friend zone for a while and if u see any hints of affection or wanting to be with u that's your key that a girl might like u. Now I'm no expert but sometimes you just have to go with your gut. go with the flow. Live on until you find someone your truly desire. College is meant for learning and getting work afterwards.

Now If i was to compare me and you we would be equal. but don't feel that would let you down. You NEED to move forward and take new heights. Don't worry if you get embarrassed or say you cant do it. Just Do IT. If you have any more concerns please feel free to shout it out on the bbs. If I find you again i might be able to help u out. try Instagram the new iphone application for sharing photo's and quick videos with people you might or might not know.

Anyways the most important rule is for you to have fun at all times. Don't let life tear you down. Keep positive. Keep at life and keep getting better. 1 negative thought can bring you back to the beginning. Move On.......

>>1 love can be fickle and hard to find, what you need to do is stop looking for it! Forget about finding it and go on with your daily life naturally, focusing on your studies and doing the things that you love, that way love will find you randomly.
You could possibly speed things up by making more friends, join a dating site (just be careful with those,) join more groups and organizations and you'll eventually you find that special someone. Be hopeful! ^^

Finding love doesn't happen, unless you're called Julia Roberts and you go eat pastas in Italy.

No, falling in love is quiete easy, but finding someone to love you back is kinda hard I must admit. I'm going to say to not look at it as trying to find it in your first circle of friends.

Maybe the right questions are: am I loveable? What makes him more attractive than an other?
It can be your sense of humor, like it would be your wise, or your interest of things, your freedom even: you're only 19, there is no surprise you didn't find the big love, but some romance, and then it'll grow, until you want to keep that person more in your side than some others.

Don't look for love, make yourself the person girl wants to date, hang out with and even, why not, fall in love with.

19 is waaaaay too young to be worried about never find the big L ;)

Last thing: don't use the word romantic as a term for a relationship: the romantics are writers like victor Hugo, beaudelaire, they're very very sad person haha look for a happy and fun relationship ;)

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