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Girlfriend Problems (16)

1 Name: Heine : 2014-03-07 20:00 ID:b3rFhKTy [Del]

So I'm wondering if I should break up with my girlfriend I mean I love her and everything but sometimes I feel like she don't love me. For example we have been together for 7 months and I tried to kiss her but she pushed me away and even when I try to hold her hand or something like that she'll push me away. I just need some personal advice about this and if I should just forget about what I feel ad just break up or wait for a while and see how things go right now I feel like I should stay.

2 Name: Little Emo Freak : 2014-03-08 00:43 ID:bl7+svV8 [Del]

Sorry to hear about that and what you're going through. My advice to you is to just pray about it and think about it some more before you do anything. To me it seems like she doesn't want you anymore but you never know. Just sit her down and talk to her and find out what's wrong. Hope you can get through this.

3 Name: Lena : 2014-03-08 02:43 ID:2/JX0zXw [Del]

Having a talk is the best solution :3

4 Name: Kitome : 2014-03-08 05:24 ID:ekzDOEgA [Del]

I agree with Lena and Little Emo Freak. Having a talk to her is the best thing for a couple going through a hard time. She could handle the talk numerous ways but depending on what she does also depends on how you should react. Have a talk to her and let us no if anything more comes up that you need advice about, Okayy? ;)

5 Name: Neko-tama : 2014-03-08 15:49 ID:yAPFd8Dv [Del]

>>1 she either sounds like she doesn't like you or she's just your average tsundere who does like you. Sit down and talk with her about it, that's how relationship problems are fixed. Tell her that it hurts your feelings and that you'd like her to show more affection. If she's not willing to without a good reason then break up with her.

6 Name: Xephlrek!9RNNck.4fo : 2014-03-09 23:48 ID:AbSTkYdg [Del]

Break up with her. Women are bad.

7 Name: 3xMatryoshka : 2014-03-10 14:16 ID:v24RmiEl [Del]

As those above said, the best option is to talk with her and see what's going on. She might be uncomfortable with physical contact, or embarrassed in front of others. On the other hand, she could be feeling guilty about something she's keeping from you. There is no broad answer to this.

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9 Name: Fazeon : 2014-03-10 17:44 ID:Ox7Cg6Yf [Del]

>>1 Like >>7 said, there's a lot of reasons why she could be this way. If you're going to talk to her, do it gently. From what you said, you want to stay together. Show her you mean it when you're talking to her. Good luck.

10 Name: Heine : 2014-03-12 11:47 ID:b3rFhKTy [Del]

Thank you for the advice guys I really appreciate it.

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15 Name: Only1dollar : 2014-03-12 19:02 ID:Tzxnuxmm [Del]

I believe it'll be better if you talk to her about it before having this break-up idea. Tell her about how you feel and see how she reacts and responds to your thoughts. Sometimes these actions don't mean that she doesn't love you back, it may be her unconscious actions that make you think she doesn't love you anymore even though she actually does. Some girls just don't like to be touched by guys either hug/hold hand whatever, or simply because she feels weird, not used to, or whatever, with these actions from her boyfriend. Talk to her and mention about it, if she reacts as if you're not important or wave you off as if you're just being an overreactive drama king then maybe you should consider breaking up. Just some opinions and thoughts of my own. >_>

16 Name: RD !BhsOWsakiU : 2014-03-13 08:16 ID:s7INuyYW [Del]

Yeah I would talk to her first maybe she's got something on her mind about you and she is trying to distance herself, or it might be something unrelated but she is just withdrawing from the people around her including you.