So this is like, I have this really close friend of mine. And you know how, well I don't think how guys often do this, but sometimes when we're just close we put our FB status as married? And well because of that we often joke, calling each other "darling" "sweetie" and some stuffs like that. And it just happened that these "sweet talks" is increasing from her and I start to find it somehow disturbing. Plus she said she's bi. Btw I love supporting gay rights and stuffs, so don't get me wrong. It's just that I want to tell her that maybe she should lessen her "sweet talks," because when this amount is increasing, for me who's just thinking her as a wonderful friend and is straight, I just get goosebumps, sometimes, plus the fact that she wrote a "sweet talky" poem on Valentines Day for me. At first I really think it as nothing, but those around me who hear this are starting to like warning me...I actually post this to let these thoughts out because I don't wanna share this with lotta peeps who are close around me.
Especially one time when she joked about how I'm homo only for her right, and becuz of another goosebumps I joked back on lol no I cheated on lotta ladies. She said she's heartbroken, in quite a joking tone. The thing is next day I talked to her she still showed me "</3" sign so I was like "I'm joking!"
But yeah. Did I think too much? ;w; What should I do

I know what that's like..sorta. A couple of years ago, I had this really close friend. She and I were best friends. I would mess with her a lot. For example, I used to rub against be like "ohh yeah~ you love it." we used to be like that all the time. Then suddenly, I noticed she would blush about it, so i just stopped doing it. Two weeks later, she came out about being bisexual. I wasn't surprised, but I felt bad I was doing that to her and I felt i had been sending the wrong messages to her.

Just try not to send her the wrong messages and try to emphasize the word "friend" repetitively. Not in a harsh, obvious way, but in a way, she would see that you clearly see her as a friend. Like, "You're so great. I'm so glad I have you as a friend." Something along those lines..

Only if you really think she's starting to really like you. That's just the subtle way. You could bluntly as her, but she might take offense if it isn't true.

That's some really good advice thank you :)))

i think you should let her know that your not ready,at the moment at least and think about it seriously. weigh your feeling for her,do you want her as a friend or a girlfriend,how would being gay make you feel about yourself