So most of you will know who I am from the ID but please even if you realise dont write... I want to stay as Anon. Thx.

So my problem; I am 14 (8th grader) and I am starting highschool this September.

However, its a different school and I have never changed schools. I won %100 scholarship and that place is expensive so most of the kids there are rich.

Im scared of being left alone; its my first time changing schools, i feel sad. Also I dont know what highschool is like Im both nervous and scared...

Im the asocial type who draws in break times and an anime freak. I also have glasses. (Got the picture?)

So Im scared... How it feels like changing schools? How is Highschool? Can someone tell me? What should I do to make friends? >.<

Arigatou~♥

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Going into high school isn't really that scary. In order to make friends just be yourself and you'll eventually make friends. High school not all that bad in my opinion.

>>1 Well, I would just lay low, and just act how you want others to see you as. Don't worry about being left alone, you'll find some people you'll fit in with. Introduce yourself, get to know them. Walk around with them, eat with them if you like.

Personally though, I think I like it sometimes when I'm alone.. Gives me some time to think. You know, relax. You can try doing that too. Maybe if the school is nice enough, they'll let you walk around and draw in a pretty comfy place. You never know, every where is different.

Besides, you's always have us. Good luck!

>>1 Highschool isn't scary. ^^
Honestly, I thought highschool would be a lot worse than I thought it would, but it's not really bad after all. Well, to make friends, just try to make friends by talking to them often, but what >>3 said, I'm also more of that person who actually likes to be alone and relax, thinking about all of the things that I have concerns with or things I like. But since your life is a bit different than mine, i'm sure you'll adapt to highschool life. If you need any help, just us on the Dollars! ^^

Thanks eveyone! I really love Dollars. It motivates me... I feel happy that you guys will give advice... I WANT TO HUG ALL OF YOU!!!! ^o^
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Hi! I'm currently im highschool, myself. I was really really nervous to change schools, myself. But, to be honest, I ended up liking it a heck of a lot more than I liked elementary. You're going to be exposed to so many new people there, and a lot of them will like the exact same things you do! You'll fit right in, I promise you. And hey! I wonder if your club runs clubs. Maybe they have one especially for anime!
You'll be fine, I promise. It might take some time to adjust, but it'll be okay! Don't forget to smile and hold your head high! Be proud of who you are!

Oh, my. 'If your club runs clubs'. If your SCHOOL runs clubs** oops!

Ha! You sound like me: glasses, draws, loves anime.. you'll be fine. more than likely, you'll find people with the same interests and begin friendships from there. Join a club/group that perks your interest. normally you'll find someone like you. high school isn't scary. it's a lot easier with the new friends you'll make. hopefully, you'll choose wisely who you hang out with :)

You sound alot like me, the only thing we don't have in common is that your going to highschool and im in middle. All you really need to do is be yourself and sooner or later, you'll find things you have in common with another person. And i know this because this year i was put in a class of people i didn't know or seen them around but never really talked to,and now i have a group of friends that support each other. Good Luck, and dont worry! :)

well i think its different for every high school, but my highschool is very nice and almost everyone is pretty friendly. they wont be an asshole to you. just act mature, and be outgoing and talk to people. they like confident, outgoing people. i know its hard, but at least try u know? :) dont be too shy, they wont like that. and be mature, not like a kid, but still fun

So you feel uneasy huh? well let me tell you that it's normal for you to feel uncomfortable. High school will surely shock you and that's alright it only means that you're expanding yourself and venturing out of your comfort zone. You would probably be alienated by changes in high school and not to mention that you're going to a new school which would mean that it's gonna be hard for you to make friends considering that the people in your class would already have their own groups and stuff. Also high school would be a long struggle of you trying to discover to who you are and it's gonna be tough. There is a lot of things you have to consider in entering your high school life but for me your going to struggle because you fail to understand and prioritize yourself. Don't be afraid to test your boundaries and live high school life to the extent

P.S. sorry for the bad English -_-

I believe each person here that has given you an advice is correct.

There will be many experiences for you to figure out. Don't be afraid. You only have one life (...side note I've died before...literally :P) So don't regret anything but make sure you don't do anything illegal and bad XD, of course.

Be yourself, if they don't want to be friends with you they're not worth your time. You got to think that if they don't want to hang out with you, they're missing out on a ton of fun. That's how I've handled myself after middle school and it's going great. Don't worry about making friends per say, again be yourself, the long struggle that 'This Guy' mentioned is correct it will be tough.


Be tougher than steel and know that you have multiple people on here that care, because we commented, we gave advice, we are here. DRRR baby ^_^ got to stick together. You'll have friends no matter where you are :D