I hate life so much and I know I might not have it as bad as some of you but I cant take it anymore. Ive moved 11 time (different schools)20 (different houses) house don't bother me but I hate moving to different school my mom moved me away when I was on homecoming court and honor role and I hated it now tht I finally got adjusted wer moving again...this is my 8th grade yr and my mom is ruining it for me. Im already registered 4 highschool and the school I would go to has no sports clubs ANYTHING. I play 4 sports 3 clubs and I hav a few friends and a guy I lik and shes takin all tht away from me again. After too many yrs (7 maybe) I finally found my brothers in this town and my dad is in this town ALL OF MY FAMILY IS IN THIS TOWN and shes taking it all away....again....I don't know what to do. I hav to go back to the step dad I hate and step brother tht I hate b/c they don't treat me with respect........help....help please...........................I just wanna die...

Well, Why is it that your mother constantly keeps moving? And consistently too? Have you consulted your mother on the matter? You should do these things first. Then, if that doesn't work, ask her if you can stay with your brothers and your dad. And when she asks, "Do you not love me?" Tell her that you clearly do; its just that you can't handle all the moving around. People handle things differently, and she has to understand that fact. From what I see here, tell her that when you're staying in a town, and you're CLEARLY making success, tell her to stay in that one town.

Anyway, do the first part with the questions, preferably. Only do the part with staying with your dad and brothers WHEN the questions before hand do not work. Good luck, and hope you figure this out!

don't declare death when asking for advice

I'm sorry to say it to you but you're an namby-pamby.

Thank u fazeon for ur advice I really needed it and asuka ya.....ik it was one of those in the moment things, plz forgive me. But norakah I ask 4 advice and u give me discrimination, wow, u didn't help at all

>> 4 I rather find it pathetic for you to voice out a rather rude comment, even though you may or may have not realized that this person is merely asking for the comfort and help. An action like that is similar to turning away to a poor, homeless child. Unless you are simply that type of person.
I highly suggest you shouldn't continue childish things like that again. It was completely unnecessary, and you yourself, should know about that more than anybody.

Um... I am not good at this.
Just don't think about death. Life isn't as cruel as you think.
You have to talk with your mother seriously. If you are moving because of problems about your mother's work or something you can talk with her and understand yourselves. Words are very important. Um... sorry for not helping too much. Sorry.
PD: We don't have to fight against each other, we are Dollars, we help people.

Good Luck Double-K-san ^^

I can't believe you.

What do you want to hear? No, please don't kill yourself, many care for you. Your mother surely loves you that's why she's wants to be with you.

To be honest with you, there are tons of people out there with bigger problems than you. And yet they strive so hard to live. And here you are saying you want to die. It's getting really annoying especially when you don't actually know what you're talking about.

Bear with it. That's not a fourth of the struggles of someone I know. And yet she lives on and works hard for it. Instead of sulking over those (and complaining online), why don't you work hard instead? Study hard (do something with your grammar and spelling), find a job, and so you could find a way to live alone or go back to that town you say. Or just show prove them wrong by making progress? Why don't you get in touch with them, and someday find a way to stay with them? Why don't you? Or the easiest: Try talking to your mom. Wait, did you even consider the situation of your mom? Nope. Nope, you didn't, did you? No shit. Because if you did, you wouldn't be thinking and saying those things. Don't say such things because you seriously had not done everything in your power yet.

Or maybe your story lacks details on your sufferings. I mean you barely say about your stepfamily. Aside from hating your step-dad, and your step-brother not respecting you (respect is earned by the way).

Do everything you can first before complaining. This is the only advice I can give. Listen, sorry to be kind of rude but you need a wake up call.


Seriously.

>>8 "Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle" - Plato
Whether you think so or not she is in a hard time. The situations of different people are all really different and should not be compared. All you do is make life harder for him.
Sorry if I came across angry. That was just because I was XD. I know you're trying to help but I don't agree with you.

>>1 I don't know if I'm too late for you to get this but I'll reply anyway. Do you always have internet available? If you still have that then you will still have us. If you get some really close online friends then you can always have someone with you to talk to. I honestly don't have any close friends in real life and I came to the dollars to meet people online.
As far as killing yourself goes it's probably not the best idea because if you do than you will miss out on a lot. You don't know what the future will be like so if it's bad now it mind end up good overall. You're the one in the situation though so only you will know all of the details and factors. It's probably not enough to kill yourself so if you have any doubts at all then don't risk it. And take time to think about it. Suicide is a big thing and isn't recommended.

That's all I've got. I hope I helped XD. Just remember, "If the world didn't suck, we'd all fall off" :D

>>6 Read my comment again and a tip for the future think before you write something.People like him have to hear the true, because when you don't know why you are so depressed comprasion to other people it "kill you".

I said namby-pamby because i wanted that he make a move a move to change who he is and start to be who he want to be. Only oneself can change his life ....

>>8 I think your being a little too harsh dude, everyone deals with things differently even if a problem doesn't seem as bad as someone else they may not be able to cope with it when the other person can cope better with their problems. You shouldn't judge people on the scale of their problems in comparison to someone else. >>1 You must feel really unsettled I can't say I really know the feeling, but I can imagine it's distressing and is probably badly disrupting your education. Maybe you should just tell your Mum how you really feel about all of this and how you think it may affect you. Seems like your Mum is running from something I'm not to sure what but that's what it seems like. It's almost like she doesn't want to settle or get attached to a place. was there ever a time you didn't move around frequently?

Tell your mother about how you feel! You're a teenager now you have the rights to rebel to your parents at times, especially in a manner like this. If she truly cares for you then she should think about it!
Think about how the consequences of death will lead you to. You have friends, have those you treasure and good memories, at least. If you kill yourself, then everything, every little thing will be gone! And what will those people left behind feel, those who love you? ;w;
But of course, don't weigh the pain on yourself. You have us so let's fight through this distressing matter togethers! And no matter where you go you have us right on the internet :) We will neeeever leave you ohohoho
Still tell your mother about it it's necessary that's the most important thing you should do right now. (Said it really late but >_>)
And for those people who think wanting to die for this is stupid,overreacting, or whatever, people have different levels and self-esteem(or something like that) on their stresses and how much they are pressured on different situations. If you're not them and don't know exactly what they've gone through, don't judge.

>>11 you are right particularly witth your last word compare someone to someone else. I forgot that every human is individual. Thanks for the instruction.