Yooo, so I haven't really gone to anyone for advice for this but maybe some strangers can help :D Although I'm not sure if this situation could really use advice :/
Aaanyways there's this guy I like (typical I know) and we actually went out on a date once and it was fun. He asked me to be his gf to which I replied with a no. Not because I didn't like him but because of awkwardness and I've never been in a relationship before, but I failed to tell him at the time.
So all throughout the school year things have been normal. Up until about a month ago. My friend broke up with her boyfriend and it was two or three months later. So she started to like the guy I liked and ended up asking him out. She kindly asked me if she could go out with him beforehand and I said yes because first of she said that he liked her back so I didn't wanna be a bitch and just because she was a good friend and I'm nice.
Anyways now I'm finding myself feeling bitter and sour or whatever whenever I think about it. So I decided to finally tell him I liked him back. He said he still had feelings for me but obviously won't go out with me.
I accept that fact but I hate myself right now because all I feel are bitter and sour thoughts when they're together. But I feel as if I can only hate myself because I let this happen.
I just don't know if I should relay this to him or not because I don't want to seem all bitchy
:/

Seeing as how he kindly decided to date your friend, I suggest you wait. Even more so is the fact that even though he is dating your friend, and still likes you, BUT does not want to date you hence he is dating another girl, show that this guy cares about a girl's feelings. Waiting would be a good idea. It might take a while, but if you two really like each other, it'll come along. If anything, you shouldn't be feeling sour, you should be feeling better about yourself; you respected your friend and let her be happy and date him, and put her needs in front of yours. Anyway, Good luck with this stuff, hope it gets worked out!

ONE MORE THING~ If you decide to date this guy, just don't forget to ask your friend if it's ok first. You may have already known this, but if you didn't, well here you go.

Thanks, I'll try my best to wait it out. Hopefully it'll get better. It's just that I feel like with every passing day he's starting to like me less like that and more of just a friend y'know.

Yeah I would say wait the average relationship lasts about 3-4 months, also I agree with Fazeon run it by her first. I was in a similar situation once but I asked the girl and she said I could date him then she got really bitter and started spreading rumors about me being a man snatcher. And things spiraled out of control. Make sure you ask her for her honest answer and to tell her that your friendship is way more important and that you want to avoid hurting her at all costs.

>>4 I get what you mean. But, if he REALLY likes you, he'd still like you. Just keep your cool until then, hang in there!