Well shortly,my father is a son of a bitch but i still love him.

A few months ago he left the home to be with another woman cheating on my mother. Than he came back and we were so happy. He was so nice to us etc. My mother still loves my father a lot so she was the happiest when he came back; she was ready to forgive what my father did.
So days passed and my mother started dressing like a... slut.

I knew they were... you know in bed?

Then my father a few days ago left the home again for the same reason and my mother just cried alot insulted everyone near her she didnt do any housework so my brother who is 22 years old came to help us.

He made the food and i cleaned up after my mother.

So today my father came back and my mother says "he truly came back this isnt fake" etc etc.

She is sluttier than ever today and I feel disgusted. Its so gross i feel like vomitting and they are in bed now its ugh... and my phone charge is in the room fuck it.

Just how can my mother... forgive him so easily?!!! Just... how?!!! I mean my father is 44 and my mother is 52 its just....
WRONG DAMN IT!

Im only 14 years old; 8th grade!!! Its so gross!! My brother left me alone with 'them' and i feel like crying vomitting and feel like running away!

Please someone help me wtf am i supposed to do with these kind of parents?! I stay really far from them and mostly avoid them but its just so fucking wrong!!! I want to change my parents please someone!!

first of all, your parents are being immature shits. they need to deal their drama and figure out what they are doing because thats what being an adult means. as for you, im sorry that all their crap falls on u :( but unless you want to tell them to get their shit together, i dont think u can really do much except try to let them deal with it. it isnt really your problem :) try not to let it bother you and just let it run its course. things wont stay this way forever!

>>2 is right. It's really not your problem. Your mother is probably acting that way so that your father will stay. She most likely thinks that she won't be able to find another man because of her age, so she is kinda desperate for your father to stay with her. Women can act that way, it's normal, sadly, and I'm no exception either, women can try really hard in various ways so that a guy will like them, your mom just tries harder than most.
You can't really do anything about it unless you talk to her but I don't really think that that's a good idea. Just leave them be. Try to do some of the house work and you and your brother can work together for the time being. It's not your fault and you can't really blame them, adults can act that way sometimes. All you can do is love your parents, I know it sounds hard but at least try to think positively and focus on your own life rather than their's. Focus on things that are important to you like school for example. I hope that helped :3 good luck~!

Hmmm.... I'd say get your own apartment. Get a job and live on your own.

Well... The very first thing you should do is talk to them. Figure out what's going on and if you can, try to help them.

I suggest talking to your father about your concerns so he can express them to your mother - she might take to it better coming from him.
If it bothers you so much you need to try and tell your parents how it makes you feel and try to understand their perspective. Either way, your mother's her own person and it's her choice to make - so try to accept that before you get all judgemental, and don't expect her to cater to your tastes without making your opinions known.

Thanks a lot everyone but I already talked to them before and that didnt help much.
>>4 I really want to do that but sadly im only 14.

>>2 & >>3 I know its not my problem but its disturbing me, i feel disgusted and im not a person who gets disgusted easily...

if all else fails try asking your brother if you can live with him.

you can also check to see if you have grounds to file for emancipation.

>>6 sometimes people get disgusted like that, if you can't do anything about it then ignore it :3

I think you should leave your home. Things won´t get any better and you will be the one who will get hurt. It must be pretty tough but you won´t change them so leave before it´s too late.

I think that what you describe sound bad and that there are a 2 different things you can try to do. the first thing you can do is try to get them back together this would be a little weird but you need to get your dad to see he needs to decide who he likes the most and realize that he is married and he should stop looking at different people. if he dose this should also cause your mom to stop acting so desperate. you could also try ignoring it and going on with your life, but if you do the problem won't solve itself it will only keep going on while you go about your life.

I think you should ask your brother to live with him?

My mother and father are getting along and they said thry made up. I just dont see my father as a "father" you know? Its like... Im talking to a horny teenager...

My brother lives with his girlfriend and his best friend so there is no place for me to stay.

>>10 they are together.

Please read the whole thread before posting, thx.

i did. i don't mean to be cynical but repetition does exist

do you have any other family members you could live with like grandparents or something? An aunt or an uncle? Just up and leaving with no definite place to go isn't worth it.

Let me just say that it's true that your parents are disgusting also it's amazing that you manage to survive in a daily basis like this. My advice to you is that people like this are REALLY hard to change but that doesn't mean they won't and that it would change for the better also I know it might be hard as F*ck but you have to love them all the way because they are your parents, I know it's not a good reason but it's definitely true that we should love our parents even how strange, pathetic, stuck up and sad our parents be. Also don't let them stop you from being an outstanding individual. I wish you good LUCK with your life and want you to know that all of us have their own struggles with parents it might not be as complicated as yours but you are not alone in dealing with this things. Stay STRONG man.

>>6 Wait until you turn 15, then hopefully you'll be able to get a job and move out.

>>16Except you can't move out when your 15 only when your 18. You could go to court and argue there unfit but you may just go to a group home which is miserable.

1. DO You Have ANY family or very close friends that you could live with?
2. Your mom wants to feel loved so she does something he think she would like.
3. try getting out of the house? participate in school events or take sports or get exercise
4 im praying for u..