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1 Name: Shadow : 2014-02-06 17:46 ID:ab7P0y6V [Del]

Okay so not to long ago I was going out with a friend of mine (we are both girls)who I had liked for a long time but it didn't work out so now are just friends again, but recently she started dating someone else in our friendship group but the thing is I still really like her and it kills me to see them together, maybe I'm just too clingy but ever since they started going out I've been feeling more invisible by the day (even to everyone else in my group) most of the time when I say something I don't get a response and today I was completely ditched, sometimes I feel that if I just disappeared no one would even notice. The thing is that things will go on for a while like that the one day for things will just go back to how they were and just as I think things are alright I become invisible again. I don't think I've done anything to annoy anyone but I'm just not sure what to do.

2 Name: Shadow : 2014-02-06 17:59 ID:DQ4rk/WE [Del]

(funny how we both have the same name), im not much into relationships, but ive had the same thing happen to me a couple of times. just hang in there, if they are treu friends they wont leave you. they might pay less attention to you but they will always be there. these are the kinds of times when you find who your real friends are in life.

3 Name: Neko-tama : 2014-02-06 18:59 ID:F4guGD7f [Del]

I agree with >>2 just try to move on and one day you'll be in another relationship, friends are friends and if they're good friends then they won't leave you, talk to them about your feelings! That's what friends are for! :3

4 Name: Fukuda : 2014-02-07 02:18 ID:IPpxL6CB [Del]

>>1 I was in a similar situation a while back. No one noticed me or talked to me.
It felt like I was all alone in this world.
But, I found new friends after a while. Just weight it up, do you want to feel lost and invisible or do you want people to notice and see you for who you are.
I chose the latter and found new friends.
Its a big world we live in.
There will be people who will notice and see you.
People who car for you will be your friends.
Those who discard you will not be.
Find your true friends.
And a bit of advice, sometimes, you just have to move on, no matter how hard it is.