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almost suicide and its my fault? (7)

1 Name: anon : 2013-12-05 11:20 ID:Hf1OVoWG [Del]

S there was there girl and she asked me why i was wearing all black and i said that i was going to a funeral. And I said just kidding death is nothing to joke about. And she said something and i said haha go die and i didn't mean it like that because it came out the wrong way. And the girl almost did by jumping in front of the car.And she was telling people she tried to kill herself and apparently she was suicidal.if she's at school now. Should I tell my mom If before iknow realty exactly if she did kill herself Our should inot try to tell anyone and go see if she's okay.? Gosh what should i Do?

2 Name: anon : 2013-12-05 11:29 ID:HrV009a8 [Del]

Update: she okay and alive but she won't talk to me.

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4 Name: EvilKatBatGirl : 2013-12-05 12:06 ID:oXC3D/4N [Del]

Although that happened, I think you should still try and talk to her. I do the same thing, and it almost ended badly, so I make sure to say "it's a joke" or "just kidding" at the end of my sentences. Pull her out somewhere to talk things out. It The best you can do if you believe that you are at fault. I don't personally think it was your fault, though, but with those words, her mind could of twisted them up differently to make it sound cruel or something. Good luck.

5 Name: Sleepology !4a6Vun8zuw : 2013-12-05 14:11 ID:PX0lbths [Del]

If this person,that you really don't even know(assumed from what you wrote), is so insecure that one insult, where in jest or not made them attempt suicide, then you should stay as far away from them as possible, because of possible repercussions of just being that person who told her to go die.

If anything, ask her what the reasoning was behind it. You could be completely unrelated to the problem, but the insult was still enough to make her want nothing to do with you. But saying "it was only a joke" isnt going to work, because that thing you said it still in the back of her mind, even if you didnt mean for it to be taken the way you did.

6 Name: zero : 2013-12-05 21:37 ID:DFI7hONg [Del]

Be carful with what you say and try and let them know your joking some people can go off the deep end some times but its better to be carefull with what you say if you space out a moment and always admint up to your mistakes and learn from them but dont fully blame your self for the event she had to have somthing to get her to that point you know

7 Name: BlueRaven : 2013-12-05 23:18 ID:xcIP79dN [Del]

be brave and go tell her kindly that you really didnt mean that and it came out wrong. maybe keep an eye on her after that and ask her whats wrong. she seems like she has a lot of problems, maybe she could use someone to talk to.