After I took a shower today I looked at my cell phone and notice someone texting me. I recently deleted to persons phone number because i haven't been texting them lately and notice someone has already texted before me. And it was my sister. I asked her and she said yes and than i told her to stop looking in my phone because it's my buisness. My sis than got mad and told me she was only trying to protect me and see whats been going on even though NOTHING HAS BEEN GOING ON.

It seems my sister is always going through my stuff and always gets mad at me for not telling her things i've been doing or not wanting her to get into things. The thing that bugs me though is when i question her about whats shes doing I let her be and let her do the things she wants to, not making faces or telling her my opinion because if that's what she want to do than it't not my business to judge BUT for her it's ok to judge me saying I'm a "secretive" sister and I should trust her more.

Well maybe if you stop butting into my business than maybe I'll trust you more!

Anyways I wanted to know if she is being protective or just snooping in my buisness

I wish I had a sister like that.

Don't try to shoo her off by telling her that all she is doing is snooping in your business, because chances are, that's not her intention. Just tell her nicely that while you appreciate her concern, you are capable of making good choices for yourself. Maybe assure her that you will come to her for help if you need it.

Passwords on phones, they are a thing. Talk to your parents for the love of black jesus.

That's not going to stop her sister from looking at her other stuff. She has to understand.

>>4 well actually saying stuff to her isnt going to stop her apparently! Get the people who are actually in charge of both of their wellbeings will.

What i would do is lock my phone ofc and if that doesn't work,then i would intiminade her in some way.But i don't have experience with annoying siblings because my siblings don't pry in eachothers buisiness.(sorry for any grammar mistakes i made english is not my main language)

Privacy is important. Tell your sister she's being a jackass by acting like you don't need it. You can't exactly trust someone who doesn't seem to trust you, right? Well-intentioned bullshit is still bullshit.

You gotta phrase it in terms she understands, at any rate. If she's trying to tell you to trust her, tell her in no uncertain terms exactly why you can't and don't. She's creepy and invasive, and you don't condone her actions - that's reason enough to be driven away from "trusting" her.