So I'm a freshman in high school and this year when I started going there,I felt really lonely because I'd been separated from my big group of friends.Then I met Katherine--a bright,popular and energetic girl my age.We eventually took a liking to each other: we liked the same things,had always sooo much fun together and spent hours on each other's side.Without even realising it,we became best friends.Some weeks after that,she started avoiding me...She stopped answering to my phone calls,claiming she was busy,and she wouldn't even talk to me in class!!I got worried but I gave her some space and didn't do anything....That made things even worse,because now she's completely ignoring me and hanging out with other people at school...And yesterday,when I asked her about it,she answered "don't ask me things I don't want to talk about and I'm not interested in!!" However right after that,she pushed her cellphone in her pocket and told me "OK,what do you wanna talk about?" That,however,got me really mad so I started ignoring her as well...As a result,she left me and sat with another girl,leaving me alone...I didn't go to school today,because I feel all alone since I have no other friends there apart from her.I end up crying myself to sleep every night lately because of her...And today,I'm going to call her and ask what we have for homework.However,what I really want is to clear things between us,that's all.I'm going to talk to her about it,but I'm so scared and confused.What should I tell her!???Your advice will be really meaningful to me,since I've no one to turn to anymore and I've never been through something as hard as this before....

Maybe you should talk with her slowly and don't get easily emotional while facing her... everyone have their own problem... this is my opinion.

Well...I NEVER get easily emotional when talking to her.Even when she told me "don't ask me things I'm not interested in",I was like "Fuck you XD" and I looked pretty calm,really...But I'm getting really scared here & I don't want to lose her,that's why I want to talk to her about it... :/ I think we should try to clear things up,don't you agree?I mean,if she has a problem she's facing..She can tell me about it & I'll give her some space!!But if for example she wants to stop being friends,I'll simply move on & that's all...I JUST want to make things clear between us... :/

i agree, just talk to her and make the things clear, and why don't you try to be friend with other?

I think you should talk to her, indeed, and try asking her what actually happened that made her avoid you all of a sudden. Listen carefully and draw some conclusions. If you really want to continue being friends with her and viseversa, then discuss a bit about the problems that might have interferred between you two. If she really cares about you, she will listen. I hope you guys solve it out.

I have a similar problem as you can see in this post, ask her what is wrong. Try working things out from there, but dont make her have the pkwer k er you like my friend had over me where he could just bend me at his will, set limits, dont apolagise because it will fix things, apologize if you are truly sorry. I made the mistake of apologizing for no reason just for him to acknowledge me, he barely talks to me now but I regret none of it because I wont let him control me anymore. If they want to be your friend, good, I wish you the best of luck, if not, she didnt diserve to be your friend anyway, and you can hold your head high to the fact that you did not kneel, but instead kept your dignity unlike I did until recently, good luck.