Well I am 13 an quite mature for my age but also distent nd cold I have like a slipt personality and wenever anybody talks to me it come out and im cold and sitent I have never had friends and im trying my best to be nice how to I do that really need help

OH MY! LET'S BE BUDDIES! I'M THE SAME TOO! But I might overwhelm you!
I'm 13 and I look like a 16-17 year old (really annoying actually)
Plus I have about 5 split personalities!
cheerful..and all that crap
My life is a drama play!
HAHAhahaha.....yeah I know..that's bad...*goes silent*

Well I'd be glad to be your friend so CHEER UP 'kay?

I was trying to go to the library to do some work but the teacher told me to wright my own pass and im not good at spelling and so I ask her how to spell library and she laughed in my face then wouldent let me go finaly she yelled at me spelt it her self then sent me away I feel like shit now thx to her and I was having a good day :'(

Guys, a real split personality disorder is quite serious, it's best not to just label yourselves afflicted by it so casually.

Thankyou Solace. I was just about to say the same thing myself.

Another way of seeing it - if you fell over and got a bruise, or perhaps you had any other components chosen from a myriad of minor medical complaints, would you go around claiming you had cancer?

Claim any identity you wish, but please take medicine seriously. This stuff screws up people's lives.

>>1
That is quite upsetting if you have never had friends. Were you home-schooled or brought up in an otherwise sheltered environment? I'm curious as to why a child your age might have never had friends.
Being nice to people is a good first step, but don't let yourself be a doormat. Compliment people when you find something you like about them. And don't be afraid to ask people things like 'can I sit with you guys for lunch today?' - it might seem daunting, but you only need to ask once or twice. After that they'll either expect you or invite you along themselves, or maybe they were not right fit for you.
You will find your own niche if you keep looking.

>>1
First, before you post it here, try using Microsoft Word. Type it there then click F7. That would help lessen the confusion and it actually can improve your spelling (based on >>3 ). (Learn from mistakes. Mistakes are normal.)

Second, before you say you have a Split Personality Disorder/ Dissociative identity disorder (DID), research on it. It's not just a mere term. If you know what that actually is, I doubt you'll go around saying this in the internet. Also, that's their perspective (if you come out distant & cold), that has nothing to do with your brain.


>>5 has already stated the ways on what you should do. Here's for the grand prize:

Have you tried to make a friendlier approach (Like the example ^5)? No? Well, it's about time you make extra effort. Life is built by a staircase of piled up efforts. If you're too shy to do that, well, don't dream about it if you don't have the guts to do it yourself.

Yes? That's when you'll have to let people deal with it. That's who you are.

Did I come out too harsh? Guess what. I'm not harsh in real life. Just because you think I'm harsh and I think I am not, it doesn't mean I have split personality.

Cheers.

PS: I'm upset that you've used that term actually. A friend of mine has DID, and it's not as easy as ABC. It's not something she's proud of (or in your case some sort of excuse of) and neither should you.

You don't have "Split Personalities." You're simply awkward.

I don't mean to sound harsh but please don't label yourself with a disorder simply because you have a problem talking to people. I find it sort of annoying, sorry about that.
>>2 I'm looking at you too.

Well! If you actually DO have split personalities, well I apologize, that is indeed a severe problem. I can't really help you with that due to lack of actual experience but I can help you get over some childhood awkwardness you seem to be having.

Do you freeze up when you talk to people? Butterflies in your stomach, breaking into a cold sweat, getting red? If you do, you probably haven't really "accepted" yourself. Tell yourself: "I'm me. I can't do anything about that, but I can make myself someone better." You have to accept who you are to overcome your little awkwardness issues. Realize that life's a blank canvas; people won't have any opinions towards you until you give them opinions. Once you realize this, it gets easier, trust me.

Have some self confidence. "Trying your best to be nice?" Nah. "I am nice." Is a better way to approach things.

I am curious though: Why have you never had friends? As Saika >>5 mentioned: Have you been homeschooled or something? It's odd to be honest.

Well, good luck.