So theres this girl I like, and one night, I got drunk enough to tell her. Her reply was... "oh..." and thats it. I knew before I said anything that I'm not her type (my friends were talking about it a couple days earlier and she had said she is into "dark hair, piercings, skinny jeans, basically your typical band member" I am... basically the opposite of that.
So what do I do now? accept that I'm not her type and move on? She didn't say she doesn't like me, and casually it had came up that we are more than just friends before that night happened. Any advice Dollars?
Talk to her up front, you could admit you had too much too drink, but if you like her, you should tell her straight up and ask, and if your not your type, then just try to stay friends with her. The difficult part may be mooving on, but you'll be ok :) we all face rejections, and it seems impossible to face in first sight, but in hindsight it isn't as bad. Good luck friend, hope my advice helps.
Thanks for the advice, I'll keep that in mind. We have basically every class together so still being friends would probably be the best outcome possible.
>>1 If someone's "type" stops at skin level, is that person really someone you want to enter into a relationship with? That's not meant as a criticism, it's just some food for thought.
>>5 That's not her "I will only date someone like this" type, that's her "I find this type of person attractive" type. Everyone has a type, even I have a type, and she isn't a 100% match either, but her personality makes up for that :P
7 Name: Kuro Neko : 2013-10-16 18:50 ID:DFZ9Der7 [Del]
When it comes to what you say when you see her, I have three tips. Pick your favorite. 1. Ask her to forget it and just be friends again 2. Ask her to just give you a chance, then try your best 3. Try to change yourself to fit the image, then ask
advice-you may not want to pretend to be someone your not, I know its cleche but still. trying to become the type she likes can sort of backfire and make you out as a wanabe or something. if your friends then so be it, maby one day that will change but for now you can just try and be a good friend to her and see what happens.
