I'm sorry if this is a dupe thread or if this shouldn't be here in any way, but I'm really scared right now and have nowhere else to turn,

Basically, two months ago I got touched. Without consent. In a lower region of my body by my boyfriend. And that's when I blank out. I don't remember the rest of that day. He hadn't done that to me before. Yes, we are the same age.

Two months later, still no period and a lot of symptoms of pregnancy. My best friend doesn't know that she will be taking me to get a pregnancy test just that I need for her to drop me off at the drug store this weekend. I was on a birth control pill but stopped taking it cause normally I would get my period but this time I didn't. Even off the pill, nothing. I had not been sexually active before and now I'm really scared I could be pregnant. My mom knows and is very accepting since she knows it wasn't my fault. My then-boyfriend has been out of my life for a few weeks now. And I'm really scared that come June, I will have a baby. This isn't like me, I am a very good student,volunteer a lot, and make everyone happy. Only reason my name is whore is to avoid being recognized.

I just wanna cry.

>>1 How old are you? I really hope you're not underage. Are abortions legal where you live? Are you planning on keeping the baby, assuming you do have one, and are you in an appropriate situation to raise a child (you said your mother was accepting and I'm sure she'd be willing to help out if need be)? Sorry for the questions, but this makes me quite concerned.
Please don't stress to much over this. I know it's a damn scary time for you, but it's better that you focus on the problem and keep your head than stress over what could be nothing.
What are your thoughts on your then-boyfriend - if you are pregnant, do you want him back in your life? Is he aware of the situation? Are you aware of his stance on these kinds of things?
Again, sorry for the questions. But, since this is an issue that requires a fair bit of info for us to help out, I do need to ask them - though you don't need to answer them.
And please don't cry. I'm sure you can work this out, with the necessary support.

You're not a Whore. I know you justified it, but I'm just making sure you know this.
This is a stressful time for you. And a lot of the stress is because you're not sure what's going on.
Please see a doctor. Doctors are obliged to keep your confidentiality - in case you are worried about anyone else finding out. Please find out what your options are, doctors are experienced at dealing with these things. Explain what happened. (What happened was rape. This is a chargeable offence. It is immoral and a sexual crime.) Are you against abortion? Depending where you are, it's not too late. Also consider adoption.
If you are considering keeping the child, you'll have to do a lot of preparation. Your mum will know about it.
I'm very glad that you have a support system already (your mum). Please don't feel like you are going through this by yourself.
What your ex boyfriend did is not okay at all. Please find ways to protect yourself from him. This is not your fault, okay?
Take control of your situation. I believe in you.

How many times do you have to hear that you are not a whore? I'm going to keep saying it until you believe it. Everything is gonna be alright, kay? Even if you are pregnant, you'll still have your friends, our opinions won't change even if you are.

Blinking, I am underage but we are in a very nice place now and have space and money for a baby. Boyfriend will not know until I am five months out due to an extremely high case of miscarriage before then.

Saki a, we're going Monday

Anubis, I hoped you wouldn't find this, but now you know why I need your help Saturday night...

For starters I'm a dude and sadly most guys I think are just interested in one thing. Most girls nowadays are as well which is kinda sad. Anyway could you get one of the self pregnancy tests? I never ran into an issue like this so I wouldn't really know, but don't jump the gun. I had some people do that and it was mainly paranoia of them being pregnant due to their period a week late and some pregnant tendencies.

Also if your mom understands and is supporting that is definitely a huge plus, since most moms I know would dis-hone their daughter.

I know it is hard going through something like this and I support you for whatever you do. If you are pregnant and decide to keep it, or not, I support that. In the long run try to view this as a learning experience if you can.

i have a sister who had a similar issue a few months back, she's 17 now and a full time mother. The baby is very loved and we all help her care for it, though unlike with you the father in her case lives with us now. I am a male , and also a virgin so i don't have much experience with things like this and i don't run across too many post like this anywhere, But i do know a lot of mothers, my best friend since i was a year old is a mom now and so is my little sister, and i can tell you things will change , i also know a few who have miscarried, it hurts emotionally like a knife to the heart...if you've seen ym other post about my certain beliefs, I'd look into crystals for safety during pregnancy, my sister has some and there get some polished blue agate for serenity

If you are calm you can think clearly , then decide you're next step

Just calm down right now... I don't think you'll have that much trouble if you have people there for you...Stay strong! :)

Sid, I'm getting a test tomorrow and unless there are severe complications I plan to keep the baby.

Ayastigi, I don't know many other mothers but due to my size it is highly likely for miscarriage. And crystals sound like a lovely idea.

Kaitou, I will do my best, thank you for your support!

Thanks everyone for your replies you're making me feel a lot better. Just feel bad for Anubis if anything

Not sure how anubis is involved (are they a good friend of yours?) But I hope they are alright as well.

Keep us updated alright? I'm sure there will always be someone around who will care about how you are going. Let us know how your appointment on monday goes.

Saik a. anubis is my irl best friend who has agreed to help me. Thank you for your support.

I'm so glad you have people around you who love you.
You are a sweet person, but don't apologise for things that other people did to you. Let your friend love you and care for you, okay? One day you'll do the same for anubis too. And I'm sure you already have.

good god girl I just realized you name thing is whore! don't call your self that!!!! your boyfriend is the jerk for touching you like that you are not a whore. also if he just touched you then your not pregnant.

crystals are nature's miracle, every one carries an energy for something different, i keep blue agate myself for serenity and i have rose quartz znd red jasper as well

Saika, thank you so much for your kind words.

Cody, that's all I remember something more happened but I don't know what cause I'm repressing it.

Ayastigi, sounds beautiful.

A little over an hour until I get the test...

Yeah, like everybody said, it will be okay. Your mom is there to support you and I'm pretty sure all of your friends do too. It's not your fault, and everyone else knows that.
Also don't call yourself a whore, okay? You sound like a great person and I hate to see people like you degrade themselves like that.
Good luck.

* Hugs* All I can say is stress can suppress a period as well. You have a supportive mother and I'm sure she will help you through this. I don't want to give any false hope but it is possible you are not pregnant.... I am so sorry to hear that something like that happened to you. Your not a Whore. Please don't ever think that. * I know you probably don't....but still I feel it needs to be said* A better code name for you would be * Wounded* You are hurt. Not a whore. *Hugs* Don't ever let what he did to you make you feel that way about yourself.

How was the test/doctor's appointment?

Don't worry it wasn't your fault

From what i've heard you have been hurt by your ex-boyfriend and now may or may not be pregnant. either way you will be fine. you have your mother's support and your friends as well. you are not a whore. even if you don't truly believe it your self it is still demeaning and should not be used to describe anyone, let alone yourself. I will not wish you luck because you are fine just as you are and will do great without needing it.