1 Name: TheRake : 2013-10-01 07:13 ID:OOhCdWs2 [Del]
Well, hello, i am new here, my english is not best and i want some help.
So, my leg is really bad (7 operations, cant stand on it), i really don't care about that problem too much but my parents don't want me to go outside, literally, i can go outside only with my sister/dad/mom, basically i cant go out with friends, girls, or anyone my age (or i can but just with family, you know that is not best), my social life is.. how to call it, just bad, my "friends" are jealous cause i am being 2 from 5 school days home cause they think it is good, it actually is terrible, school is harder, one "friend" actually told me that he is jealous cause i am not going to school last week of year (it was day before operation and he knew it), i am now computer maniac cause what else can i do right? I read books, and cook cause i get bored fast home. I have couple of not very normal people that i can chat with and have some contact so i will not get crazy, i don't hate my life, just really want to get out of this bad social situation. Ok, that was my story, now..
I want you to answer:
1.what would you do
2.how would you tell your dad you just need to get social life (i already tried, he said NEIN)
2 Name: D'or D'amour : 2013-10-01 09:29 ID:XG2O3Yn8 [Del]
To answer question one, I would just talk to my parents.
To answer question two, I would just tell my farther up front, something like this "Yo Cool Daddy, can I go hang out with friends? My social life is in jeopardy!", or something along those lines.
(Note: I may not actually talk this, or call my farther 'Cool Daddy')
Also, there are some other thing I would like to comment on. It may not be your damaged leg that is stopping your parents from allowing you to hang out with your friends. It might be something to do with trust, like do your parents trust you, or do your parents trust your friends.
You say you have a sister. One thing you could do is take note of if they allow her to hang out with her friends. You may be able to use it as ammunition to help you in your situation.
That is all I have to say about this for now.
3 Name: Hidden !yxSN/bs2A2 : 2013-10-01 20:54 ID:B7f3Bfvl [Del]
Ok... First off, if your friends are being mean or rude about your situation, you need to tell them. Otherwise you need new friends.
About your parents not letting you out of the house. Get one of your closer friends to meet your parents, and have him/her save one of their # in his phone, so that if something happens to you while you are out with him/her your parents know he/she can call them. Your parents are being protective, and depending on how sever your leg is, it might actually be for your own good that your under supervision. Just make sure your parents know that at least on of your friends you will be going out with is trustworthy, and can call them if something happens. (If nether you nor your friend is old enough to have a phone, you prob are to young to be going to far from the house alone anyway)
4 Name: TheRake : 2013-10-02 04:53 ID:OOhCdWs2 [Del]
i think i will do this: i will wait till my last operation (1-2 years +1-2 years operation) then i should be able to walk. Then if parents will bug me i will have a speech.
5 Name: Kurai : 2013-10-02 12:02 ID:800xVwBC [Del]
Your friends are sorta being jerks.
1.) ...I'd probably just deal with it. If not, I'd ask my parents if I could go out every now and again, to attempt to make a compromise.
2.)..Well your parents just want the best for you. Understand that. Try to compromise. Like you can go out for a few hours on Saturday or something. Keep a phone on you, so your parents can contact you if you need help.
