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What to do (5)

1 Name: Takeda : 2013-09-14 08:27 ID:MxjXYaE8 [Del]

I've been friends with this girl for a couple years now but now she says that she wants me out of her life cause we had an argument. I want to stay in her life so how can i get her to forgive me

2 Name: Blinking!!VVr++Kk/ : 2013-09-14 08:47 ID:SNrngNsS [Del]

I guess that depends on how serious she is about it. Is she REALLY angry with you? Because if she is, I'd give her a cooling-off period and let her think about it some more.
Otherwise, just show that you're sorry and that you don't want her out of your life and hope she understands.
But at the same time, sometimes you just have to let people go. It sucks, but sometimes it's for the best.
Anyway, good luck!

3 Name: Thistle : 2013-09-14 10:45 ID:m92d25AP [Del]

Insufficient data to produce any feasible output.

OP, an "argument" can take many forms, is this something inconsequential that'll blow over in time (in which case you should already know the answer you're looking for) or is the situation more dire? Either way, the more specifics you provide, the more likely people here will actually know what you need from our advice.

4 Name: ayastigi waya : 2013-09-14 15:34 ID:q5o08NuS [Del]

I had this problem once before. If she truly wants you gone you will eventually wind up gone. If she comes back of her own free will , as in my case, Keep her around for she is in your life for a reason

5 Name: megnekko!8NBuQ4l6uQ : 2013-09-15 00:23 ID:NJiZZNNZ [Del]

it depends on what the reason for the fight is. if it's really bad then think about BOTH your and her actions. if you feel your right and don't what to change your mind. then don't bother. but if you feel you mess up or lost your temper or said the wrong things to her.
meet up sat down talk it out. listen to her without saying a word. then tell her your view on things. if she says anything just remind her you respected her and to respect you and hear it out without saying anything. it hard but worth it. trust me.
plus do not raise your voice. remind her to do so also and if she still doesn't what to hear it leave. just go. if she not listing to you don't bother cause then she disrespecting you and you don't need that. find someone else. if she not willing then its not going to work. it just wont. who knows maybe she'll change her mind after calming down.