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Stupid kids (6)

1 Name: Bloo : 2013-08-30 06:41 ID:7PskXVNK [Del]

So I'm in international business class which is really just computer class and I'm not learning anything I didn't already know. Back to the main point, I hate the kids at my school. I can't their humor, personality, interests, looks (there are like no cute people here out of about 1000 and somethin' students), just everything about them. It's either something stupid like them going on 9gag and laughing about memes (stupid shit like that), bashing on other people for not being like them, shit taste in music, who's got the most expensive clothes, stupid teenager shit. I'm a junior and I can't relate to teenagers. I love the old MTV like Sifl & Olly, hate all this pop and mainstream rap shit music, don't really care about clothes because I dress like a bum to stay comfy and save money, I watch a shit ton of anime and British TV and barely any american tv even though I live in America, don't really think you should bash on someone unless you have a legit reason to, etc. I hate most teenagers because they're so stupid, ignorant, can't think for themselves, can't do a little work without bitching about it. So can ya guys tell me some ways to deal with them? I listen to music all the time as loud as I can but they talk as loud as a nuclear bomb. They're just...I don't think I can classify these things as normal humans, but now a days everyone's either to stupid or fat to know right from wrong so I guess I'll always feel like this.

So anyway can you give me anyway to deal with these things? Any suggestions would be helpful

2 Name: Anri : 2013-08-30 07:42 ID:suG1T19y [Del]

Be yourself, there's no reason to adapt if you don't like these things...

3 Name: Blinking!!VVr++Kk/ : 2013-08-30 08:09 ID:BOrNfMqs [Del]

>>1 What Anri said, be yourself. If these people don't matter to you then you've got no need to impress them. However, don't take that as an excuse to be an asshole towards them - you need to build these social skills and tolerance towards such people to advance in life.
Stupid teenager shit is a part of life. It's a lesson to learn - you learn to be better than the things you hate. It teaches you not to judge based on things like looks and interests and to rise above all that bullshit to become a better person.
People now aren't growing out of that teenager bullshit as well nowadays, still acting like dumb teens well into their twenties. But the people who can't mature by that age are stupid, because you can't enter society and find a good job being that immature.
Equally so, you need to avoid judging them. There's no point calling them out on their idiocy when you're doing the same thing, because it's all about perspective. Don't care about their taste in music or their love of memes or their weird hierarchy, and most definitely don't be rude to them because of it. They aren't necessarily bad or stupid people, just not as mature as you. You just need to accept them - if they're going to be dicks, be a dick right on back, but don't get all funny with them over their choices just yet. After all, they're just kids.

4 Name: Bloo : 2013-08-30 13:40 ID:PMslDGHq [Del]

>>2>>3 Thank you both of you. I think I'm going to just keep on avoiding them all the same though. They've been this way ever since 6th and never once changed. Thanks for the advice guys (:

5 Name: Neko-tama :3 : 2013-08-30 14:34 ID:F4guGD7f [Del]

I also think that way about the kids in my school. I treat them as NPCs (yeah... Life is a game to me X3 ) you can ignore them but also converse with them if you want. I ignore them completely :3 but just never try to become or change to be an NPC you are your own person, completely unique ^.^

6 Name: Saika : 2013-08-31 08:27 ID:BMFgEm2d [Del]

Are you sure? Maybe if you look a bit harder, you'll find someone that connects with you.
That said, if you already give no fucks, I see no reason for you to change.
One thing for you to consider though, this one thing you said:
'don't really think you should bash on someone unless you have a legit reason to'

Are you a bit of a hypocrite?
What did they ever do to offend you? As far as I can tell they're leaving you alone, but in your head you just hate them so much. It looks like a lot of your existence is focused around not having anything to do with them, rather than in being yourself.
There's a fine line these two foci, but you should know when you've crossed it.
Love yourself. Be a decent person and have some patience. Believe it or not, you'll have to be seeing these people and a lot more like them for the rest of your life. So it's better to start learning to be patient with them now.
Maybe even try to understand them.
They're humans too.