My ex boyfriend has been following me for a few days and threatening to hurt himself if I don't stay with him. I'm worried that he'll hurt my family too cause he's a bit of a sadist. Also I'm getting shit from his family my mom called the school and they're going to make sure he can't get on school grounds I'm really getting freaked out but I don't want police involved cause that'd make more drama from his family. how do I recover from this emotionally?

the best way to go about something like this would be to find out as much as you can about him every drop of data possible and think over what possibillitys exist with the use of this info. you want to repell him so find out what attracts and repells i may suggest also learning some krav-maga so you have a way to defend yourself. study up on psycholigy get in his head and make him break down expose everything butif hes threatening suacide then you have an obligation to inform his parents then to call the cops and have him evaluated . do so labled as an anon and you should be fine as for your family stick close for a while theres not much he can do and if he wants to screw with you and you wanna take a chance you can fuck up his life. no one screws with a phantom. if you want to talk more about it in private then text me at 810-282-9558. yes i can find a better solution than top quality revenge i just need to talk for a bit and find out more details than provided i major in psycholigy. see ya soon Acid

I should ask you, have you sat down and talked to him seriously? Or have you been trying to avoid him the wholetime. Just a quick question before i go on with my advice.

I've sat down and spoke to him many times yes.

>>1
Tell him that he is a faggot and should totes hang himself.

>>6 Says the guy who keeps pretending he'll die. They were all right about you.

I've been there before.
greatthiefphantom is on to somthing.
get in his head and find out what this attraction is, then you know where to focus.
p.s. speaking from expirience, find protection before confronting him.
a knife, gun, backup, anything.

>>4 well i personally would have gotten the police, but i understand you don't want to do that, i guess the best advice i can give (without throwing you into harm) is to let the school keep him off campus, and stick close to your family for awhile, though if ends up escalating to something that will put you or your family in danger, you need the police to get involved immediately if and when it gets the point. I know my advice might not be much but i hope that it can be something. And for emotional recovery, i would say give things time for all this to blow over, and maybe spend some time with your family or friends. Or let out anything you need to let out here on the BBS. Anyways. hope you stay safe and everything goes well.

Everything was good until his family started to threaten to beat me. Gah boy drama.

>>10 Well threats are threats, so long as it's mere idle threats I'm sure you can brush them off and ignore them. But again, if it escalates, i refer you back to what i said in my last post.

Now they're posting shit on Facebook but in the end its worth it because it was an abusive relationship and I got out of it confidently.

>>12 Then lets move on with life and you can find someone that you deserve :) i hope it goes well for you my friend, and don't hesitate to post here again if you need any more help.

Thanks Doug (:

my advice blows but give up boys, date chicks, guys are emotionaly instable and I am truly sorry but call the cops get his ass thrown in jail, seriously...

>>7 Was it Faraday again?

>>15 >Guys are emotionally unstable.

And women aren't?
Huehuehuehuehuehuehue

just what the heck is wrong with him... :c

>>15 Was your advice to the OP seriously to become lesbian? Your right, it did blow.

>>16 huehuehuehue

you're* ew.

I think the Op's problem is solved however. Acid if you don't mind me asking, would you consider this problem to be solved yet? Just asking for the sake of saging the thread so no one necro posts on your thread when it's already finished. It's our way of keeping the threads less cluttered.

I think it's pretty much solved thanks ^~^

Alright :) glad to hear it. so post closed then lol.