I just don't know what to do.. I'm very depressed but can't tell anybody around me my problems, because every time I did, it made life just more complicated.
There was a guy I loved and he loved me, but we lived in different towns. He didn't wan't a relationship because of that. We just tried to get along, but we can't stop having feelings for each other. Then, after he can't stay with this confused life, he decided to have "no feelings". So he became more and more another person, who don't even feel pity for anyone and really didn't have any feelings. He wasn't happy, but not sad though. I tried so too. But I still liked him, so I tried to text with him less. Now I didn't heard of him for a month... I was the last person who wrote and don't want to annoy him. Also because now I was feeling better after a loooooong time and don't think about him very often. Also because I have/had a crush on somebody. Go on with my life after this long period of sadness seemed for me to be the best way to feel better again. But there's a big problem. I had a crush on a guy in my class, but couldn't tell him. I fell, that he might not be that interested in me and didn't wan't to complicate school life, 'cause be forced to seeing him all day long... Then I had my birthday and invited the whole class (also because I didn't want to just ask him). At this party, my sister had to catch an eye on us. I didn't want to have my mom around... There the guy flirted just with her, although she's nearly six years older. I felt very sick... Now I have/had a crush on someone, with whom I could maybe really be a couple. But he didn't know, what I was feeling, still don't know... I told it nobody. Not yet. He loves to party a I knew he was going to be on the same party as my sis last weekend. First I thought it would be funny, if they really know each other, so I told them both, that they would be there. Both also thought that would be very funny. But then, in the evening, I realized what I've done. I didn't now for sure, if they would even really met each other at the party, but if so... Maybe he would be interested just like the other guy. Just like the most guys. My sis is very attractive... The next day she came home and said, she really met him at the party and they get along very well and she went with him home, talking the whole night. This party is for three days all in all, so the evening she went away again. There she danced with him the most time she said, and that he's so a nice guy and so on... And she will met him again at wednesday to go drinking coffee. She did as say and yesterday evening she told me, that they are a couple and she's so happy. Of course she asked me a few times if it's ok that she hang out with him a bit. At the party and so on. I said yes, because I didn't want to forbid her having contact with people or so, when she's liking someone. Also when she told me, that they are a couple, I said it's ok, because when he is also interested in her I can't stopping him loving her and of course having instead feelings for me. Both would be sad, when I would say anything. But still nobody knows how I feel. She's more than five years older than him and is in the same grade and class as I am... Just for you to know: I'm 16, he's 17 and my sis is 22 nearly 23... What shell I do? I cried the whole time and I'm still crying, preventing it to my sis. I need an advice please or just someone who can give me some hope, a few words or so. Just want to talk to anyone who don't now them...

i realy think that you need to discuss this matter with you sister and not lying to youself,if you cant do that find someone else tha you realy like so that you gan forget abou this.i would recomend you my first sugestion though couse you dont have to harden your relashionship with your sister for a boy.

After reading your experience, i really feel sad for you.I can understand the feeling you have.I think u should think out that the boy like you or your sis? If the boy like u, you can talk with your sis, tell her your feeling. But if the boy like ur sis,if i were u, i will hide the feeling and try to forget this guy,because he doesn't belong to me and i don't wanna ruin the relationship between i and my sis.

I kind of understand, I'll say it and I'll say it now, men aren't exactly the most reliable, as of monday I am single and PROUD anyways what you should do is think long and hard on this, do you really like him? If so go talk to them about it, just don't fight with your sister, sisters are always there :)