my best friend is struggling with anorexia and bulimia nervosa. its hard for me to see her struggle but i dont know what i can do to help her. it doesn't seem like i can do anything and she'll just do what she wants. she doesn't care that her friends and family are worried about her, all she cares about is what SHE wants, which is to lose weight. what can i do?

ask her why she wants to lose weight and her answer might help you to find out and if you still need help you can always ask me again to help you.

You could try and show her that what she is doing is hurting her more than helping her. Look up a video on it and show it to her(attempt to shock her back to reality with sad and scary video's and stories then say you dont want her to end up that way). Then tell her that there is another way for her to lose weight in a healthy way(eating a healthy diet and working out). Wish you best of luck, 2A

ask why she want to lose the weight. remind her that fat weigh less than muscle. if she won't listen to that show her what a pound of butter look like and say that a pound of fat isn't in one place on the body but all over.