I have 2 bestfriends and they were same guy.
Let's name the two of them Poru and Maru.
Accidentally I fall in love with Maru and he likes me too.
But he is harsh to me and he always ignore what I have told him but in the other hand he is a very sweet person.He usually express his love not in words but in deed and sometimes he usually flirt me. He really needs me because I am the only one person he can ask for help.
And there is Poru my second best friend. He is very kind and a very caring person. The one I ran for help and advices. He is always there for me. He always help me with my love problems with Maru because he is too harsh to me. (the 2 of them are best friends too) Then while we getting closer to each other he accidentally fall in love with me. For all what he have done for me, I accidentally love him too.
Now my attention to Maru is now taken the half for Poru. My feelings for them is 50/50.
I know I can't take back the words I said but if only possible I did it. We all know we can't love two person but we all know its hard to choose.
I can't think properly, I don't know who will I choose.
Should I choose the one who needs me or the one who's there for me?
I beg for advices, please.

First I'll introduce myself I am Devon and Im male. I was in a sitch exactly like this one. A girl named Ashlyn was in my japanese class and I liked her but she was with another guy which was my friend danil. Well befor I could blink I fell in love with her. I couldnt hide it from her so i told her. we hung out, nothing happend. I wrote her poems and notes that were thousends of words long. im always sweet with her and then she fell in love with me. well her bf was inoring her and they were always fighting. So insted of trying to steel her away i was there for her and she could confide in me. well they broke up and a cupple months later we started dateing and now were getting married in August. me and danil are still friends. so in hinesight "maru" will one day run its corce and "paru" will be there for you and youll start dating. Love is strange so let it run its corce or dump "Maru" and date the man you thing is right for you

>>2 your story is really inspiring, thanks a lot.

But it is really hard for me to forget the one who needs me.
He is a stubborn, he can't get to do things by his own. Like in studying he uses his intelligence on games but in studying he seems to be not caring. He needs help, he needs me all of the time, he needs help related in studying, asking for help to find something he loss or even passing projects to the teacher.
I can't leave him alone maybe I'm not for him or maybe we are have to be just friends.
I can't choose properly.

>>2 oh I forgot, congratulations \(^w^)/ I hope I could have an happy ending too.

This isn't much of an advice, but I think it helps anyway. What do you see in them and why exactly is choosing this guy more important than the other. In context it doesn't mean much, but knowing, truly knowing why you're with someone helps.

>>5 thanks, this will help

>>5 thanks, this will help

"If you cant choose between 2 people you love, pick the second one, because if you truly loved the first, you wouldent have fallen for the second." - Johnny Depp

^True shit.

>>8 Thank you very much I wake up to reality.
This is soo true.

i will say that i agree with >>8 but i will say be selfish keep one or both

choose the right person for you. i would recommend the one who loves you most. plus he is very kind and caring for you. you should not let him down. he might loose trust on you. you just need to be friends with maru now and go to poru >:D

Thanks for all your opinions It will help me.

To be honest, this is your decision. You can't rely on other to make your decision. You live alone in life, learn how to be independent.

>>13 thanks

you should choose the person who makes you happier and who deserves your love better