Early today a scene not so out of the ordinary took place. I had to pee, but my brother was in the bathroom. He happened to be peeing. How do I know this. The walls in my house are super thin. I can hear everything from him unzipping his pants to when he he flushes and onward. The problem is what I don't hear. HE NEVER WASHES HIS HANDS! IT DOESN'T MATTER IF HE'S TAKING A DUMP OR HE'S PISSING! HE NEVER WASHES HIS HANDS!(ノД`)

The first time I noticed it a coincidence. I asked if he was gonna wash his hands. He glared at me evilly and asked me " did you wash your hands?". It confused me but I answer we'd honestly. " you mean last time I went to the bathroom? Yeah of course always do." And then he got all huffy and walked off.

After it occurred a few times, I started getting angry. I'd told him that it made me uncomfortable that he didn't wash his hands, and yet he continued. So I started telling my mom. She usually would tell him to go wash his hands, and he would protest and then go wash his hands. Still he won't wash his hands until she orders him to. So when it's home alone he refuses to. It's ridicules! He's 21 years old. He needs to grow up and learn to wash his hands instead of tying to avoid it and throwing a hissy fit when he gets caught.

So today when he walked out without washing his hands I told him to turn around and wash his hands like a big boy. And to hurry up cause I had to pee. He just glared at me and told me to pee first. So I did and when I got out, he was in the living room and he refused to wash his hands. I turned to my mother and asked her to tell him to wash his hands. He got all uppity and said that since he was a guy he shouldn't have to wash his hands cause he didn't touch anything. Cause he was a guy . So I responded how anyone would.

"You had to touch you penis to get it out and put it back in. Do I have to get it into more detail or will you just go wash your germy hands already!" So then he tried to change his story. " well I already washed my hands." " bullshit, go wash your hands ,lier. I heard everything. Everything but you washing your penis germ covered hands." I'm not one to usually use vulgar language, but I was and still am angry as all get out. Anyways at that point he got all bug eyed and marched over to me and got right up in my face and screamed. "I'm not a lier!". my response? "Yes you are now wash your hands". My mother ended up saying she didn't wanna fight, and let him get away with it after scolding me for being stubborn and angering my big brother. Didn't I know he wasn't he was her favorite child. How dare I confront him.

Anyways I got so angry I had to tell someone about it. So here I am. Got any advice in how I can get my brother to wash his hands? Please? He touchs EVERYTHING in the house. He tried to touch my food. This is a real problem.