1 Name: Tata : 2013-03-01 17:23 ID:QMlDJNyr [Del]
So ive been liking this girl for a while know, who happens to be a good friend of mine. She is currently in Greece and having fun i guess. I kinda missed her and wanted to text her,so i did. I wrote "Heey! How is ur vacation going? Done something special? Too be honest i miss you. Too be honest i kinda miss you, thought we could hang out sometime during the break... Lets do it sime ither time :D"She replied eith "Heeey! Thanks, im going on a concert tonight. Just so we are on the same page, i dont like you more than a friend so sto wasting your time on me. Have fun! Hugs! So my question is basically: Do i still have a chance with her? Ive heard that girls sometimes say something, but they dobt lbow fir sure ye.t
2 Name: FlyingKnives : 2013-03-01 17:39 ID:6Eo001zJ [Del]
Here, let me convey your post to this, the Dating Problems Thread: http://dollars-bbs.org/personal/res/1344781425.html
3 Name: Kira : 2013-03-01 17:48 ID:UOq/xkoC [Del]
Hmmm...i think you should just keep hanging out and see what happens. Things might change.
4 Name: kylor : 2013-03-01 21:04 ID:oVVs0Gyi [Del]
Honestly I'm not a dating guy, but my experience, no. I'm not gonna sugar coat it for ya and be like, "well if you try..."
No. That is just gonna annoy her. So just be her friend.
5 Name: Buster-kun : 2013-03-01 23:08 ID:DqlLXW/s (Image: 400x400 jpg, 64 kb) [Del]
I feel for you, bro.
6 Name: Tata : 2013-03-02 04:32 ID:QMlDJNyr [Del]
Guys..When she replied me back with that text i actually texted her back. I mean, i was a bit shocked about what she said that but i texted back with "No, i understand! Have fun! :D" Was that a good or bad idea? I´ve heard that if you do that you somehow make her wonder "What? Why isn´t he confused or angry? Am i not good enough for him?" :)
7 Name: FirstBreaker : 2013-03-02 06:46 ID:tEmNaXx4 [Del]
Damn... What she said is worse then ripping off a band aid. Honestly, I don't care how much i cared for her, when i heard this i woulda been like :F it, I'm out."
don't get me wrong, I hate players, and love seeing true love, but that seems little blunt and harsh to me. Well, maybe not so much harsh.
8 Name: Tata : 2013-03-02 08:22 ID:QMlDJNyr [Del]
@FirstBreaker yeah gotta agree with that, it was rude...But do you think it was a good idea to text her back and say "No, i understand! Have fun!"? :)
9 Name: Tata : 2013-03-02 08:22 ID:QMlDJNyr [Del]
@FirstBreaker yeah gotta agree with that, it was rude...But do you think it was a good idea to text her back and say "No, i understand! Have fun!"? :)
10 Name: shogun : 2013-03-02 13:43 ID:EzI/2gd3 [Del]
Don't give up on her
11 Name: The Human-Spider : 2013-03-02 19:23 ID:iCpDHVJT [Del]
If that's really how things went down then she obviously has no concern for your romantic emotions. She's not worth it. Leave before you start to convince yourself otherwise, but all and all just move onto greener pastures. There's are plenty of women out there, at least one of them is for you and she (rather callously) just did you the favor of showing you she wasn't the one before you hurt yourself, or worse before she hurt you. Though no matter what you decide to do I wish you good luck.
12 Name: Anonymous : 2013-03-02 22:57 ID:HI9/cGWz [Del]
By saying "No, I understand" would have solidified the idea in her head that you do like her more than a friend which could damage what chances you do have. But seeing as how she tried to be kind("Heeey! Thanks, im going on a concert tonight", the fact that she didn't say that she hated you completely, and "Have fun! Hugs!") I'd say you're still friends. There isn't a 100% chance that you will be able to turn the tables and win her love, but it's not impossible. Just don't over do it.
13 Name: Tata : 2013-03-03 04:38 ID:QMlDJNyr [Del]
Yeah...I guess i have to think about this very deeply. @The Human Spider i totally get what you´re trying to say, i just need to think this through. Thanks for the comments, guys!
