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Invisible (2)

1 Name: LoNeLy : 2013-02-17 17:06 ID:qYVorUHj [Del]

Hello, Im what you consider uknown? Or is it ivisible? Well whatever the term, Im never seen by anyone. When Im gone my teachers never notice, theyr surprised when I am there to awnser a question. My classmates never notice me either, or if they do call me "Silent Girl'. Its not that I dont mind, I mean Im not getting bullied, but I was wondering if anyone could tell me what its like to be noticed? To be in a group or circle, and any advice please? Im really sorry if I bother you with my troubles, but I was hoping the Dollars could help?

2 Name: Kaori !SGRPrwhmGE : 2013-02-17 17:45 ID:c6Dqo1GI [Del]

Nonsense, you're not a bother whatsoever. However, let me tell you this: everyone feels invisible. I'm not saying you aren't, or you're wrong for saying and feeling that way, it's just that it may seem that way. Most of the times it feels like nobody cares or notices, but there's always that one person that you may not have even noticed, who ACTUALLY does notice when you're gone or see what you do. I also have a question, do you sit by yourself at lunch and 'social' things?

To be honest, I think you should talk more. :'D It'd be great for you and for everybody else. Plus, gotta get those sociality points for when you might try out for a job interview, or if you ever want to be in a relationship. I don't really know much about you, but I would also open up. Do you smile a lot? Smile MORE! Smiles make everything better. Say thanks, or ask people questions. You don't have to go all out and ask and talk like never before, but just start out small and grow on that. Big relationships can start from little words, and you'll be surprised by how many people and who share similar interests to you. And this part may sound stupid, but fake laughs actually work. Oh GAWSH, how many fake laughs have I come up with over the past year or so? People feel comfortable when you laugh, and it relieves tension from you and your peers and other people. Laughter just alleviates everything, so idk, laugh and smile more even if something isn't funny? Psshhttt, it works though, it really does.

To answer your question, it feels like being loved and cared for. And I believe it's something everyone needs, although it may be overlooked quite often. To be noticed is like winning...oh I don't know, a bag of carrots in a pie eating contest. It's a good thing, and it definitely boosts your self-esteem, especially when people ask you questions or you just pull up a decent conversation. When you're in a circle of friends (or group or pack or herd or 'ew ratchet clique coming down north') that is when you are most intimate. Not as in romantically, but personally. These people know you for who you are, you can talk to them in your regular (low baritone voice if that's what your relaxed voice sounds like). These are the people who will write on your -facebook- wall, or text you when you're gone and such.

I hope this helps in some sort of bizarre way, though.