How can I deal with someone that only see's me as a friend or a classmate? There's this certain person that I like but I having mixed feelings about him because my friends and familys opinion.Their opinion comes first because it's family first right? Anyway they especially don't like him but they see him in one way and I see him in another.But in all he's really not that bad. Also there's my ex that constantly acts as if we're still a couple though he's the one who thought we should break up. My world seems to be getting smaller and smaller. I really like him but I also care about my friends and family opinion because their probably trying to look out for me so I don't get my heart broken,but I can't seem to get throught my mind weather I want to keep liking him or I want to listen to the people I care about advice.

I feel you man. I've actually been in a similar situation. Heres my advice: Like whomever you like.....but don't stalk them...from experience, I know this doesn't work. If you really don't want your ex bothering you, sing We are never ever getting back together really loud to him...he shouldn't bother you after that. Back to your crush, if your family and friends REALLY don't like him....I mean REALLY, then you should probably take their advice....they could know from experience. But hey, my school might have a different situation then yours.....

In my opinion, If the guy you have a crush on isn't abusive, on drugs, in a gang, etc. then he should be just fine. Don't let your family and friends dictate your life. Sure family and friends are important but they aren't you. They don't always know what you want/need. But that doesn't mean just completely disregard everything they say. You should still take what they think into consideration because they may see something in some one you don't. As for your ex, if he tries to act like you two are still in a relationship, yell at him about it and make it clear to him you are tired of him and whatever you had before is over and done with.

I`m not so sure how to deal with guys who only wants to break up with you within there`s only 1 week left of school before the winter break, especially when when you`ve only been dating for about 4 days. And I`m not sure if i can deal with it any more when i see him with his girlfriend and there hanging out but it seems like me and his girlfriend made eye contact a few times when ever i`m watching, she`s probably thinking that i`m a stalker,but it fells like to me every time but she never does.And it still drives insane because when me and my ex boyfriend see each other still acts like were going out and especially when we ride the same bus after school. I hate getting into a relationship especially when it`s my friends. Because it still seems like were friends but not dating!I hate this!....