A day ago, my friends decides to go swimming, then I will going to tell my grandma about this. I ask her If she will permit me to go, then she don't let me.She saids that it's dangerous to go outside w/ a guardian, but the family of my friend is going to, but he don't agree. I know she is just concern to me but I really want to go, please tell me what should I do to make her agree about this.

What I do is give the number of my parent or guardian to the person's parent I want to hang out with. It's easier to let the adults talk it out because your grandma will always see you as a child who doesn't know any better.

It is that dangerous outside? Where do you live?
Tell her that you have a guardian, I mean, when you are with friends you always are taking care of the others... I think.

>>2 well I don't think so, because it's a bit embarrassing to do that.
>>3 In Philippines, because these days many teenagers like me get harm.
I already tell her but she don't listen to me, again she ignored me.
It's sooo hard to convince her, I'm soo stressed thinking what I have to do...

well, explain to her everything, and, try not to whine. not that i should be the one to talk but, keep calm and explain what you will do, who will be with you, and things like that. try to do that and see if it works...^^'

>>5 thanks (^w^) I will just be keep calm to make her say yes!

How is it "too embarassing"?? That just makes no sense. Obviously you don't want to go bad enough if you use an excuse like that. Or are you like 15 or older? Then the real question is, why are you that old and she doesn't trust you? You might have to talk with her about trust because dangerous or not, she can't shelter you forever.

>>7 .....because i'm a 12 years old...kid...(=^=)
that's why.